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Style Battle: Navy Suit vs. Charcoal Grey Suit? (Pick One & Why)
Gentlemen, if you could only own ONE suit for the rest of your life, which would it be? 👔⚔️ Two iconic suit colors. Two very different statements. And every well-dressed man has an opinion. THE NAVY SUI: Versatile, confident, and universally flattering. Navy reads as both formal and approachable, making it equally at home in a boardroom, at a wedding, or on a first date. Pair it with brown shoes for a classic look, or white sneakers for a modern edge. It's the suit that does everything. THE CHARCOAL GREY SUIT: The ultimate power suit. Serious, authoritative, and razor-sharp. Charcoal grey carries an undeniable gravitas that navy simply can't match — it's the suit you wear when you need to command a room. With a white shirt and black shoes, it's untouchable. The question: Which suit earns the single spot in your wardrobe — and why? Vote your pick below 👇 and tell me what outfit you'd build around it!
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Going to a Hair Salon for the first time
Man i can’t believe that this is actually a post lol 😆. But i’ve been taking the advice of some of the brothers and Mr. Centeno on this community, and decided to go to a salon for the first time. I’ve had years and years of shitty haircuts, and i mean no disrespect to the place, but ive realized that it just isn’t the look that fits me anymore lol. I felt a little awkward, being a dude in a salon, but it was genuinely such a good environment. The stylist was a really nice guy who did an excellent job on my hair. As a balding brother struggling with hair loss, i’ve been erring to find the right styles to cover it up while i’m on my hair loss meds journey, and he did a fantastic job at giving me a haircut for the occasion. They’re inclusive too, they also wash and dry and style your hair when finished. This is definitely going to be a new place for me to start going to now. It’s made a huge difference on my appearance and face. Thank you all!
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This Stops Being About Clothes
There's a shift that happens for some men. They stop asking "does this look okay?" and start knowing. Not because they memorized rules — but because they've built a standard for themselves. A quiet confidence that doesn't need to announce itself. You see it in how they walk into a room. In how people respond to them before they say a word. In how much mental energy they have left for things that actually matter. That's not style. That's identity. And identity isn't bought — it's built, through consistent habits and deliberate choices made over time. That's what RMRS Premium is designed for. Not trends. Not outfit grids. A structured path to becoming the man who looks sharp because of who he is — not what he's wearing. If that shift sounds like something you want, the door's open: https://www.skool.com/rmrs/plans
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Clothing Budget
I’m curious how others plan their clothing expenditure. Is it an annual percentage of your house hold income? A monthly amount? A seasonal amount? A spur of the moment thing (when I see what I like- I just buy it)? A wad of cash to the thrift store or mall (when it’s gone I’m done buying)? What’s your approach? I would like to tell you that as a financial advisor I have a well documented system but that simply isn’t true. Fortunately I worked in quality mens stores when I was 15-24 so I developed a sense of buying long lasting quality both in style and material yet my method is less systematic. Since joining this community I have attacked the economics of my wardrobe and thought I might share my journey to trigger discussions about your own: A year ago I went through my closet with a pen and pad and estimated that if I replaced everything of mine in there at today’s prices it would cost $40k. Some items are 30 yrs old. I even have a few 40 yr old items. So if I were to average 40k by say 25 years average life of each garment, thats $1600 per year or $133 per month. Full disclosure, I didn’t spend that much. I look for sales, some are gifts, and for the really old items I got the store discount. Furthermore all these numbers are extrapolated up to today’s price for example the shoes I wore yesterday are over 42 yrs old- today they would cost $850. They were $200 in the early 80s when I got a 40% discount so about $140: still a lot of money for a poor college student but clearly I’ve gotten my money’s worth. Also my career over 40 plus years has had big swings in income. It has been a long road of big feast followed by shallow famine. So I buy when I’m flush. Lastly I like to travel and buying things on trips helps me remember the trip every time I wear them. Recently I’ve been “blessing others” with poor fitting items. The most expensive clothes are those I won’t wear. So thats my journey. Basically when spending -what to me are bigger amounts (custom suits, quality shoes) I try to be ruthlessly timeless to exacerbate their value. My goal is to keep my outfit below a $6.00 per day average wearing costs by buying quality timeless style. The pics are the 1982 shoes and 1982 green tie I wore yesterday and the silver tie I wore in my wedding in 1985 that has been in one of my OOTDs
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OOTD - Wednesday 22 April
It is getting much cooler here in Canberra, as it does every year heading into ANZAC Day (25 April), just in time to be frozen for the Dawn Services. I didn’t wear the Coat and Hat accept for the photo, though they were ready if I needed them. Our overnight temps are now dropping into the single digits (or 38 - 48 F for you Americans). And up to mid teens and low twenties during the day (60-72F), but that will be into the overnight negatives and day time single digits in no time. Todays outfit consists of; Oxford Woolrich DB Overcoat in Olive Green M.J. Bale Bowning Suit in Green, The Bowning Suit is cut from 100% Australian Merino wool and woven in Italy into a Super 110s twill with a subtle two-tone micro pupstooth weave and lightly brushed flannel finish. Charles Tyrwhitt French Cuff Luxury Stripe Shirt in Ice Blue Egyptian Cotton OTAA Silver Anchor Cuff Links OTAA Seychelles Teal Anchor Tie OTAA Bond Tie Clip in SIlver Brixton Barrel Snap Cap in Moss/Sand TrendHim Wide Dark Green Clip-On Braces Strap Habit Kermit Lapel Pin M.J. Bale Cortona Flora and Fauna Pocket Square Ducapo Deep Green Monkstraps, given a nice fresh shine last night. OTAA Green Polk-a-dot socks SOTD - Viktor & Rolf Spicebomb Nightvision WOTD - Vincero Chronograph - My Lvl 9 Watch Lovers Piece Have a great day all 🤜🤛
OOTD - Wednesday 22 April
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