this might not seem ultra related to style, but i’ve seen similar posts made on topics like these, so i wanted to talk about it here too, since one of the focused here is self improvement and the topics related to it. “women are all shallow, hypergamous monsters who suck the souls out of men” “men are shallow, slobby, gross bigots who only want sex” -pretty much every dating coach on social media ever. being gen z kinda sucks in this realm. but one of the worst aspects of it is the dating culture now. or should i say, the mirage of dating culture. social media has done great benefits for us, but in my personal opinion, has done more harm than good, at least when unregulated. echo chambers, messed up dopamine levels, extreme opinions, and a constant feed of biased information are deeply bad for us. a lot of us lack commitment, emotional maturity, and genuine understanding and compassion of others. and one of the worst things to arise from it, has been a massive surge of manosphere content. now i don’t have issues with everything the manosphere has to say. i think it does have good aspects, like self respect, discipline, reclaiming masculinity, and working hard to achieve your goals. those are great things and should absolutely be taught. but then when it gets to its extreme, it gets dangerous. for one, it’s the treatment of women and reducing them down to sex objects and robots. on these online forums regarding incel redpill and blackpill topics, there’s an extremely derogatory and dehumanizing word that gets thrown around, called “foid”, which is meant to reduce women down to harmful stereotypes and dehumanize them. if you really wanna dive deeper into it, i don’t recommend it, it’s disgusting. the other thing i see is the harmful mindset of “us vs them”. now for me personally, i used to be on these deep manosphere forums and consumed the content. professional victimhood is one of the biggest things ive seen. its defeatist, deterministic, “us vs them” worldview that views everyone else enemies, and anything bad that happens, well its everyone else’s fault.

Catching up on some last minute items before I hit the road for a week or so on some work trips. Purple 1/4zip Cream/brown/blue check button down Charcoal Grey Denim Charcoal Grey with red shadow strip OTC dress socks Brown Cap toe Boots Omega two tone Seamaster Aquaterra Guerlain Spirituese Double Vanilla Have a great Thursday everyone!!

I hate it when this happens. Hope your Thursday is much better than this type of event.

Good morning, ladies and gentlemen: This is a topic that will bring much discussion, and some are not going to agree with this and that is fine, because as ladies and gentlemen we all will not always agree on things but one thing we can do is agree to disagree. We can have positive dialog without anger and attitude. It is the opinion from some that as ladies and gentlemen that certain items especially clothing are meant for certain thigs and should only be worn for that purpose. Now, this was the way of life in the 30,40,50,60, and early 70's. but as time went on many things that intertwined, became mixed and/or incorporated. I personally feel that as ladies and gentlemen certain things are to be used for their intended purpose and should not be mixed or introduced as a new trend. For me things like: 1.wearing tennis with suits, 2. wearing gym clothing as everyday attire un public, 3. wearing bedroom attire in public 4. men carrying bags that resemble women's bags i.e. purse type bags 5. men wearing hats inside public places 6. women wearing sleep bonnets in [public 7. men wearing baseball caps with suits 8. people on speaker phone in the general public 9. people putting the whole life on social media 10. parking in no parking pr prohibited parking spaces because you feel you are just going to be in there a minute 11. men not opening doors for elderly and women 12. women wearing men athletic clothing 13. men and women gossiping about other people 14. people who give unwanted and unsolicited advice because they feel their opinions matter 15. men who do not pump gas for ladies or elderly people these are just 15 tings that I feel as ladies and gentlemen we need to correct and work on. Again, I am not saying that I am right ro anyone is wrong, these are my personal thoughts. But I am curious to hear what your thoughts are and what you feel as ladies and gentlemen we need to improve on. Remember these is NO Right Or Wrong, this is a discussion.

decided to take advantage of being near the strip, and i’m at zara, trying out some new style ideas. what do the experts think?