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This Stops Being About Clothes
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Style advice
So sorry about the late notice but I have a question to see if I can wear this tomorrow, for church! I have worn something like this before and I'm sure that I could pull this off. I would like anyone advice to this. I have trousers that are the same as the jacket itself if that helps. P.S. --- I know that this doesn't mean much now, but I've noticed after I took the picture of my watch was upside down.
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Road trip to visit grandparents
By way of profound blessing, I still have both sets of grandparents-- and the couple on my mother's side celebrated their 65th (yes, sixty-fifth) anniversary this year. So very early on Thursday morning, we loaded the kids in the van and drove the 11 hours to my old stomping grounds in Illinois. We are here for another day or two doing lots of visiting and catching up. I wanted something cool and comfortable, yet dressed-up casual, so I went with an orange linen shirt, beige Chino shorts, and AE penny loafers. The large white stitching in my belt matches the large white stitching in my watch band (Monterey Kitty Hawk). While Grandpa John (on my father's side, and my own namesake) despises shorts and told me in no uncertain terms I looked like a girl and should have my manhood cut off, I brushed his opinions off and carried on. I've come to view style (especially CTM) as more of a tool and less of an identity. Anyway, today was a bit of a departure from Thursdays more dressed up look with the blazer. Men, life isn't worth being judgmental or voicing strong opinions, and none of us are always right. Have fun, be you, and treasure every moment.
Road trip to visit grandparents
5/31/2026 Trinity Sunday followed by Elena’s Cafe
Today was Trinity Sunday. The weather was nice so I went with a basic white shirt with a half lined light blue wool silk blend sport coat and seersucker trouser. We took the photo between services so.that I could catch the play of the light through the stain glass windows. My accessories included a floral print tie, straw fedora and Italian spectators. I only wure the hat during the photo sessions. After the second service Robin asked me to take her to Elena’s Cafe in Upper Arlington. She snapped a picture of me eating the order of Crepes Florentine.
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