You can change your whole life today. Right now. Not someday. Not after you feel ready. Today. It’s as simple as choosing. You haven’t chosen yet. You have been floating… Hoping things materialize… You think something is wrong but it isnt… You just haven’t chosen yet. Who the hell are you? What do you want to be? You have to choose those things and you can make that choice today. Right now… …you can decide who you’re going to be and start living like that person immediately. …but you gotta start working like that person before you live the life of that person. The thing is… The life you’re living right now is not random. It’s not bad luck. It’s not the world doing something to you. It’s the result of a previous version of you. A version that didn’t decide. A version that floated. A version that coasted. A version that reacted instead of chose. A version that didn’t understand that identity is not discovered… It’s chosen. Intentionally. The consequences of that previously unaware person you were are what you’re living inside of today. Here’s the part most people miss. When you choose a new identity, the world does not instantly respond. Nothing changes overnight. Your bank account won’t magically shift. Your body won’t immediately transform. People won’t suddenly treat you differently. That lag is where most people quit. They decide. They act for a week. They don’t see results. …and they assume the decision didn’t work. It did. Reality just hasn’t caught up yet. Identity changes first. Behavior follows. Results lag. That’s the order. If you decide today who you are and then you live the way that person would live with discipline, structure, and consistency… …the world has no choice but to adjust over time. Not because you wish it. Because you force it. You don’t become that person when the results show up. The results show up because you became that person. Most people wait for a guarantee before they commit. Winners commit and let time deliver the life that comes with the identity.

Good morning, ladies and gentlemen, I wanted to clarify something, I am not here to complain, make judgments, or call people out. I have had some people say that my posts are sometimes long. and I agree my post are not like others, because if I am going to make a post, I feel that I need to explain what the post is, why I am posting it, why I feel this is important. This community is more than about clothing and accessories, it's about the lifestyle that we all have chosen to live, it's about self-improvement, it's about personal growth, it's about sharing our views, and thoughts concerning every aspect of our lives. Sure, I can post what color socks I am wearing, or how much I paid for my accessories, or where I get my fragrances from, and there is nothing wrong with that. But there is more to this journey than that. If I can't share my life experiences good or bad, if I can't listen to what works and what others failed and to learn in here then why am I here? I try to post content that hopefully help others on this journey, that bring not only thoughts but discussions, and conversations, from my experiences and what I learned from others to pass on. There are far more better people that have much nicer clothes to display, and accessories to show that I have, there are far more people with better experience in fragrances and how to coordinate things all together, but I can add to this community by sharing what I learned and my experiences and what I am learning on this journey to help others. So, if you feel my post are too long for you to read, I appreciate your thoughts and that you felt you needed to tell me this and I respect your input. But I will continue to bring thought provoking content, to discuss and engage in conversations, so we all can benefit from each other and grow and make this world a better pace.