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April 28th: Live with James Lawley (GentZ)! 🎙️
Get ready, gents! We have a very special guest joining us for our April 28th LIVE call. @James Lawley (GentZ) — founder of Gentlemen's Collective and a man who's built something real from the ground up — is coming on to share his story. How he got started, what he learned along the way, and how leveling up your style is really about leveling up yourself. Whether you're just starting your style journey or you've been in the game for years, this is going to be a conversation that hits. Laid-back, honest, and packed with value. 📅 The Details - Event: Style, Confidence & the Come-Up — Live with James Lawley - Special Guest: @James Lawley (GentZ) - When: Tuesday, April 28th - Time: 5:00 PM – 6:00 PM Central US - Meeting Link: Click here to join the call - Drop your questions in the comments below — I want to make sure we cover what matters most to YOU. Let's pack this call and show @James Lawley what this community is all about. See you Tuesday! 🚀✨
April 28th: Live with James Lawley (GentZ)! 🎙️
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The power of Pink
I’ve spoken many many times about the three conservative foundational menswear shirt colors in American Classic Timeless Menswear: Blue White and Pink. For at least 70 plus years these have been the primary colors for men’s shirts. The reason is simple. These three color of shirts are virtually interchangable in tie and suit /sportcoat options thus they “conserve” one funds thus they are “conservative” Many guys get pink confused with other colors like lavender, ecru, or yellow. While those last three certainly can be used very adroitly in many ensembles and can look outstanding (especially lavender) as a bold break from convention, they are not nearly as primary as pink. I look at pink as blue’s and white’s slightly more dynamic cousin. Some guys still harbor some rather childish “little boys wear blue little girls wear pink” sentiments but to me that sounds like the same guys who can’t understand why you would wear a sportcoat and slacks out instead of jeans, graphic hoodies, and baseball caps. If one want to wear jeans and an hoodie and a baseball cap out on the town-who cares -nbd. Yet if that person wants to condescend to one wearing a sport coat and slacks-which of these two are being childish? If you have an issue with guys who wear pink take it up with the guys in the last 3 pics OOTD 1995 MTM medium grey suit 1982 ancient matter silk RL tie CT pink oxford Cream and blue silk pocket square J Fitzpatrick black captoes
The power of Pink
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This Stops Being About Clothes
There's a shift that happens for some men. They stop asking "does this look okay?" and start knowing. Not because they memorized rules — but because they've built a standard for themselves. A quiet confidence that doesn't need to announce itself. You see it in how they walk into a room. In how people respond to them before they say a word. In how much mental energy they have left for things that actually matter. That's not style. That's identity. And identity isn't bought — it's built, through consistent habits and deliberate choices made over time. That's what RMRS Premium is designed for. Not trends. Not outfit grids. A structured path to becoming the man who looks sharp because of who he is — not what he's wearing. If that shift sounds like something you want, the door's open: https://www.skool.com/rmrs/plans
This Stops Being About Clothes
Purging vs. expansive use
I have been watching Ash on the YouTube channel, The Chap's Guide. He often talks about how he purges sections of his wardrobe because he does not use the full array of items (e.g., ties or shoes). If there are items you simply do not use anymore because you no longer like the item then purging is appropriate. For example, purging all synthetic ties, eliminating duplicate shoes of the same class and color - such as black cap toe oxfords - by removing the less desirable pair). This is a solid reason for purging and I do this as well. I mostly donate to charity, though I am considering trying the seller's side of eBay. If, on the other hand (as Ash did with his ties a few years back), you are purging items you actually like but regret not wearing, I suggest it is very correctable, gives you many more outfit combinations, and will make you feel like you are getting your value of all of your wardrobe. Most of you know I am a proponent of using AI for my daily outfit selections. This process helps me take on a number of wardrobe use goals: don't wear the same viewable wardrobe piece in front of clients for the past 5 visits, don't wear any item within 5 days of the last wear (watches and some others excluded), work to drop the cost per wear for items with the least percent drop in CPW once per week and the raw CPW once per week. Keeping track of cost and when you last wore an item is easy and encourages you, say once per week, we wear an item that has not been worn in a while. When you do this, you also expand your outfit diversity, especially to those who see you on a daily basis. My office assistant quickly noticed that I never wear the same outfit and now he asks how he can do that in his life. BUT!! You do not need an Excel database to maximize using your less worn outfits. If you know you have 50 ties, ask your phone or smart speaker to pick a random number between 1 and 50. Then, wear tie 28 (if that's what it picked) on your tie rack that day. Ash says that after getting rid of 100 ties, he still only wears about 10 of his 100 remaining ties. One time per week, if he used simple random numbers, 90% of the time he would wear a less used tie. That new option can get him to consider a different outfit layout than he has been using lately.
Out with the Old, in with the New
Today, I officially retired my well-worn Clarks Oxfords (right side)—faithful companions that have seen more miles than some government vehicles and probably attended more meetings than I care to remember. They’ve earned their rest. Comfortable, dependable, and never complained… even when I did. But it was time. In their place: a pair of brown/cognac Florsheim cap-toe Oxfords. Same mission set, just a little more refined—like trading in a trusted field watch for something with a bit more polish. The Clarks got me where I needed to go; these Florsheims are here to help me arrive with a little more presence. No disrespect to the old guard—but we’re stepping things up now. Notice, the new Florsheim's already have their new shoe trees!
Out with the Old, in with the New
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