I don’t care who you are and what you think about me! You have no right to judge me! Now that I got your attention, does that really make sense? Does it? Because the reality is people are going to be judge you whether you like it or not. People have already formed an opinion about you the first 10 seconds you walked in a room. You cannot stop it not can you change it Should you care? Absolutely! Why should you care what people think about you? Well, unless you want to live under a rock alone for the rest of your life, unless you want it stay in the same position, the same life status then yes it does matter. Is it right for people to judge? No! Are they going to? Absolutely! You can buck the system of life and say you don’t care and remain the same or get passed by. But my question is this before you decide you don’t care what people think, are you where you want to be in life? Do you have everything you ever wanted or need? Do you not want the best prices on something, a discount , or maybe want to upgrade ? If you do then you better re think about your stance on not caring. Because every where you go people are going to look at you and judge you. And if they knew you previously, especially if you were the best person then, you better want them to see the new you and not who you were. People, if you want to get ahead in life if you want them best for you and your family then you need to understand this, people are going to judge you so you might as well give them the best version of you that you can. Whether its for that promotion, the job you wanted , the new house, or that new car, maybe that person you been getting all tongue tied over, you better wise up and do a little self evaluation and some self house keeping from within first them the outside of you. If they are going to judge and talk about you then give them something positive to talk about.

Hello Gentlemen, Happy Holidays from sunny Miami Beach 🌞 I thought I'd share this outfit of the day: Shirt: Alex Vando seersucker cotton (source: Amazon) Belt: Fabio Corti (TJ Max) Pants: Benson linen (small shop on Lincoln rd) Shoes: Börn Marcel (Zappos) Watch: Vintage ZIM circa 1960 (eBay)

I absolutely love the 12 days of Christmas. The pressure to buy gifts and put up the decorations, and get to all the relatives and have the house ready to receive family and friends has basically wound down. It’s time to relax, and enjoy the world’s most celebrated birthday. As an anglocatholicmethidobapticostal I find the whole denominational arguments as superfluous as whether UPS or the US postal service has delivered my Amazon order to my porch. But I do love the liturgical calendar and how it creates the ability to focus on the year in a meaningful way. Today is most likely the last client delivery for the year so I went with a fifth day of Christmas theme and even wore a green flat cap gifted to me by the sons of my deceased best buddy Timmy. White shirt, green silk and linen V neck, wool tartan tie, Burgundy cotton blazer, Grey flannel pants, tan Indy Boots, green faced Borealis watch. I am saddened for those who miss out on Christmastide and pull their stuff down the day after only the first of 12. For my wife and I who lived in Germany and travelled to the Tyrollean areas of Germany and Switzerland and Italy for decades we can finally take a breather and enjoy all the wooden nicknacks that remind us of our travels. More importantly we can sing all the songs in anticipation of the magi’s arrival. I just hope she doesn’t expect. 🎼 FIVE GOLDEN RINGS😳