Is it a red flag if a guy smokes a lot because his job stresses him out ?
Also if you ask a guy what he's looking for in a spouse and he basically says he doesn't have any specifications except that he wants someone that will live on the same property as his mother and that he prefers his wife doesn't work. Is this something to be concerned about?
Also when I asked him if he had any questions to ask me during our first conversation he said he didn't have a checklist and just wanted to have a conversation. When he said this I felt embarrassed that I had a checklist. Are these feelings valid?