There are traps that many folks who've been on the "self growth and spiritual junky" journey (I lovingly say this because I'm here too 😘😂💜) are often aware of and it can potentially sabotage exactly what it is that you want. 💥Here are 4 of the Biggest Ones: 💜 Looking for signs before you make a move. Don't get me wrong- I love my signs and I do see words, numbers, and even feathers frequently, but I see it as a "divine nod" that I'm being supported rather than something I use to make decisions. I've seen some folks get stuck in a holding pattern waiting for a sign that never materialized. 💜 Outsourcing your power. When we allow outside energy/influences to override our intuition and trust in ourselves whether it's a coach, mentor, or even someone pulling a card for you, the final choice needs to be your own. Been there, done that! I don't do it anymore, even with a high ticket coach. 💜***THIS is the biggest one**** Waiting to be fully healed or transformed before doing "the thing" whether it's starting a new job, designing a new program, writing a book, starting a new relationship, etc. Life is meant to be lived, not programmed or bypassed. 🌟What to do instead: 💖 Use signs as a confirmation of support while taking action rather than waiting for one to initiate action. Signs are beautiful and all around us if we're aware and open to seeing them. 💖 Allow your voice and intuition to have the final say in your choices. I'm a firm believer in coaches, mentors, and getting advice from someone who's been there before you, but you need to honor yourself and what's best for you. Make it your flavor, not someone else's. And if you're into pulling cards, pull your own or tap into your own interpretation of someone else's pull. 💖 There is no amount of healing, classes you take or degrees/certifications that will prepare you for life. We learn by living and doing through the ups and downs... and we grow, heal, and evolve through that beautiful and messy path. I'd love to know below which one or more resonates with you (or even a past version of you). I believe going through any of the above are lessons meant for us to help us get out of our own way so we can share ourselves with the world. 🥰🥰🥰