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4 traps that sabotage your confidence (and how not to do it)
There are traps that many folks who've been on the "self growth and spiritual junky" journey (I lovingly say this because I'm here too 😘😂💜) are often aware of and it can potentially sabotage exactly what it is that you want. 💥Here are 4 of the Biggest Ones: 💜 Looking for signs before you make a move. Don't get me wrong- I love my signs and I do see words, numbers, and even feathers frequently, but I see it as a "divine nod" that I'm being supported rather than something I use to make decisions. I've seen some folks get stuck in a holding pattern waiting for a sign that never materialized. 💜 Outsourcing your power. When we allow outside energy/influences to override our intuition and trust in ourselves whether it's a coach, mentor, or even someone pulling a card for you, the final choice needs to be your own. Been there, done that! I don't do it anymore, even with a high ticket coach. 💜***THIS is the biggest one**** Waiting to be fully healed or transformed before doing "the thing" whether it's starting a new job, designing a new program, writing a book, starting a new relationship, etc. Life is meant to be lived, not programmed or bypassed. 🌟What to do instead: 💖 Use signs as a confirmation of support while taking action rather than waiting for one to initiate action. Signs are beautiful and all around us if we're aware and open to seeing them. 💖 Allow your voice and intuition to have the final say in your choices. I'm a firm believer in coaches, mentors, and getting advice from someone who's been there before you, but you need to honor yourself and what's best for you. Make it your flavor, not someone else's. And if you're into pulling cards, pull your own or tap into your own interpretation of someone else's pull. 💖 There is no amount of healing, classes you take or degrees/certifications that will prepare you for life. We learn by living and doing through the ups and downs... and we grow, heal, and evolve through that beautiful and messy path. I'd love to know below which one or more resonates with you (or even a past version of you). I believe going through any of the above are lessons meant for us to help us get out of our own way so we can share ourselves with the world. 🥰🥰🥰
4 traps that sabotage your confidence (and how not to do it)
The Journey Begins (intuition vs inner critic)
Happy Tuesday Everyone! 🥰🥰🥰 Transformation, growth, and evolving in life and business start with tuning into your intuition and not your inner critic. Intuition and self trust guides us and build confidence, while the inner critic keeps us stuck in fear and indecision. Part of connecting with and growing that intuition is understanding that your journey is yours and it has MANY layers and dimensions. The infographic below illustrates many of the ways we grow, heal and evolve, but the most important part is YOU choosing what's best for YOU. On our journey here together we're going to tap into all of these areas in time, but we'll be starting with learning how to tap into yourself.💫💫💫 You can call it intuition, subconscious mind, or even higher self, but being able to clearly and confidently do that and listen to it (not edit it) is a skill and we're going to be starting that tomorrow. Where are you at with trusting your intuition and self?? Be honest! We're all human and perfectly imperfect. 🥰👇 Also, has midlife made this better or worse?
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Welcome AI Biz Summit Friends! 🥰
I wanted to give a special welcome to AI-Driven Business Summit Members! We're so glad you're here!! Please introduce yourself on the pinned welcome thread or even below. This is a brand new community for midlife women who: 🔥 Have built success but no longer feel connected to it 🔥 Feel their identity shifting and it's creating resistance and even doubt 🔥 Don't want to follow the typical narratives of how it should go and how we should be This space has been a long time coming and is the culmination of both my experiences with patients and clients, but notably having been there myself. I've walked through many fires on this journey and I'm going to share it all with you: the good, bad, and the ugly. I'll also have guests that have been there too and come out the other side shining! This community is all about you! I'd love to know what each of you need and want. Please share below some thoughts on what you want to learn about and how you like to engage. I firmly believe that we need community support and connection now more than ever, so I this will be a collaborative space (more to come on that soon)! Grateful you're here and looking forward to getting to know you! 🥰
Community Relaunch! ✨🥰🥳 (and some vulnerable shares)
This post has been weeks in the making and I can finally share it with you all. 💖 The truth: I closed my 3 year old community earlier this summer and launched this one because of a deadline I had to meet for summit. This isn't a bad thing, but it forced me to create something before the concept was fully conceived. And I didn't love it. The first month or so was good, but then I lost momentum as the summer went on. I also found myself listening to everyone else about what I should do and how to run a Skool community. 😣😧 Honestly, I got off track in that sea of advice, but had a moment of extreme clarity. I needed my own medicine, so I went inward and listened to my OWN voice and what I teach to others. When I did, it was obvious what I needed to do and my inspiration came back 10x!! 💡💡✨✨💖💖 As you can see, the community got an upgrade in the About section and community card. Next week the categories will change, the levels will be defined and classroom will have new resources and tools added. This is the first stage and will continue to evolve with your feedback. This community is not just about the work of transformation and finding your self trust and confidence, because that's only one piece of the journey. It's also about joy, play, creativity and connecting with other amazing women because that's what fills our souls and allows us to expand into to magical women we all are. 🦄💃✨💖🥰💫 So, I'll be sharing the practical information you on how to get out of survival and stop performing so you can understand who you really are and confidently show up in the world. But we'll also be doing exercises and games that let us be creative and fun! We'll also have community events with the other amazing Skool owners I've connected with. This is just the beginning. It feels right- not perfect and I'm so okay with that because this is real life. I'm SO excited to share this journey with you! 🫶🫶🫶🫶 I'd love to hear where in life you feel like you need a re-do below. ⬇️
[Request🙏] Back From Vacation & Ready to Go!
I took a break that I didn't realize how much I needed. 😂 Isn't that always the case?! I posted a few times while I was away and then remembered WHY I was there. And it wasn't work. I was reminded in the moments I stepped back and watched my family play together or when I took the dog for a walk amidst the beauty of the wildflowers and mountains how much being present and grateful is essential to our lives and wellbeing. That connection to our loved ones, the earth and the divine feeds our souls. And that's what the heart of this community is. Connection, support, and guidance as we evolve and expand in midlife. Confidence and clarity are outcomes of this journey, and only a piece of the puzzle. So, I've been working behind the scenes to both refine and expand what is offered here, but this is where I need YOUR help. Over my 2 decades of working with women, I realized the magic of what I do is guiding successful women to stop living from the identity they built to survive and start leading from the woman they've become. The gift is that you stop living from a version of yourself that no longer fits. There's no longer an internal tug-of-war going on inside. No more showing up and performing for others. You get to be YOU. All of you. With no explanations necessary! Here is my ask. Let me know what ways you can best be served and how. I'm going to put a bunch of poll options down. Vote for your favorite, and then in the comments respond with anything else that sounds good from the list and feel free to offer up ideas too. 🙏 I've got the new version of this space almost ready to launch and I'm so excited to share it with with you all. 💖
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