Late Introduction · ADHD Harmony™

Late Introduction

Well my analysis let me know that I work in spirals which is completely true.

I have a little late watched all the videos and done maybe the first or the second one and answer the questions and I only recently went back to read all the instructions on all of them and maybe I will just cycle back and try to complete the micro to dos before the 6 week begins.

Hi I'm Maggie,

I really participate to this extent in online communities but hey here we are

This year has been already about getting out of the way of myself.

I hope I can do that a little bit more here.

This program and challenge came exactly at the right time and I have never actually completed a self-development program fully that did not require me to be there in person.

I have invested quite a lot in them before and they work to a certain degree but I will have to say that the only works because I was committed to doing the inner work and a thousand and one thanks to Jim, I think I finally understand what that means from someone with the perspective of neurodivergency.

For someone with different mental wiring putting in the work means something completely different to someone else that puts in the work who is a neurotypical. For example a lot of programs will say okay now that you've identified the story get rid of it and you're like oh yes that makes complete sense. It's not enough that something makes logical sense to us. I tried to tell this to other neurotypicals and they give me advice and they just don't get it.

There is literally a Mount Everest in front of me and the one thing I am supposed to do. And sometimes I don't even know that there is an invisible Mount Everest there. I try to explain this to other people and they just don't understand. I suppose this is what it's like to tell someone who can breathe normally and naturally what it's like to have asthma. I really cannot relate to anyone that has asthma how difficult it is to breathe when it just happens like that for me so I have empathy for no one getting why taking a break and resting and recovering is simply not enough and also I'm sorry. So forgive me if it's a bad comparison but I saw a comment on YouTube once that said "telling someone with anxiety to just calm down is like telling someone with asthma to Just breathe".

And I will add to it ... "or someone with ADHD to just do the thing" because of *whatever logical reason why it will benefit you*

I've already identified some blocks and some struggles and I could really use your guy's perspectives and help.

I always thought we would save so much money.and time if we just all got together and all the adhdrs would just solve every other ADHD is problems it would be so amazing.

One day I could not get up off the floor during a body doubling and I asked the chat how do I literally get up. You know what I mean. Someone said "levitate," as a light-hearted joke but for some reason that comment literally worked. I said thank you so much I completely forgot that I was a fairy who has the ability to fly and was just pretending to be human for a moment.

Okay that's way more than I planned to say for now.

Thank you for indulging me and letting me take off my mask and just be a fairy. 🧚🏽‍♀️

🙏🏽

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