In AI I said "talking to my husband about my decisions feels like a foreign language", and now I know why. I come home talking about what I tried. He's reading whether it worked. Also my list of things I've tried has no apps on it, just books, courses, coaches, prayer. All of it asking someone else to tell me I'm okay.
Basically I am looking for someone else to tell me I am enough. I need to learn how to tell myself I am.