Anyone ever consider using AI to give MOA members feedback for improvement of individual Instagram profiles. Was chatting with chatgpt today about this and how to get around security concerns with instagram and chatgpt thinks it would be fairly easy but I don't have enough knowledge to do it.

Having only been in the program 2 months, I’ve identified that most of us all have the same struggle. We are over-thinkers, egregiously. And because of our habit of staying in our own heads, we have many of the same issues, one of which is being socially uncalibrated. For those of you who haven’t taken action in the program yet, I implore you, #1 Suspend your disbelief (shut off the over-thinking part of your brain). #2 Implement action (speed of implementation). We are prone to NEEDING to know all the information and answers BEFORE taking any action, but that’s not how men learn best. We learn best by doing. It’s in the pursuit of implementation that you will acquire calibration. I could be off, but I believe one of the biggest reasons we over-think and NEED all the information/answers, is because we all fear failure. Somewhere early in life, we developed the core belief that failure defines us. Out of that core belief we pulled all the stops to ensure we never experience failure. Have you heard the saying, that which you most need is often that which you most avoid? My life started to turn around when I stopped avoiding failure, and instead saw it as an opportunity to learn. If you’re struggling in an area, it might just be that what you need is less orchestrating the PERFECT plan in your head, and more action/experience in that area. Less thinking. More action.

I have heard Michael say many times that the top 1% of men are so rare that they can have multiple girlfriends. This topic is very interesting, and I see many benefits of having multiple girlfriends and not just one. So that makes me curious: do you want to have one girlfriend only or multiple?

So I'm at a point in life, at 52 years of age, where I really don't give much of a fuck what anyone else thinks of me. I'm starting a new chapter in my life and want to create something epic for myself. I've been holding back a bit on fixing my IG since joining MOA in October 2025 because I'm married and I did give a fuck what my wife thought. We're seperated and while I would rather we sorted things out, I'm at the point where it doesn't look like we will turn this around. Also, she's blocked me on IG, so it really doesn't matter what I have on there now! Back in October I had a 10ish year old insta with 2 photos of my kids on it from 10 years ago. This what I now have https://www.instagram.com/matthew_porter_barnett/ Not there yet with it, like I say I've been holding back. Happy to take any feedback or criticism... A question though.. who else is in the UK? Is there anyone who would be interested in working together on getting photos sorted for each other and helping each other on this journey?

1 February - 8 February 2026 Reached 20,000 followers on Instagram! Absolute insanity. I never believed I would have had such a following, but it's my reality now. Can't help but be so fucking cool to all these peasants with 70 followers and no profile picture. It's at the point now where the vast majority of women now put me on the pedestal. It was only in July 2025 when I reached 10,000. 351 new followers in the last 7 days. To celebrate 20,000 followers I went to a fancy ass Japanese restaurant. My wife invited a female friend of ours along who we had a social circle with a few years ago. Now she lives in the USA and was briefly back to visit. Finally saw the final commercial that my daughter was in. Only managed to get an Instagram story look at it so far, but I'm trying to get my hands on a high quality file to keep it in my files. Went to a Candelaria parade in Lima, a celebration that is big in Puno (South Peru), with similar celebrations in Bolivia and Chile. Got bored of the crowd near the starting point and went around to find anything interesting. I ended up on the block behind where the parade girls and dance groups were getting ready. There were no crowds there and I just hung out. For example, met a Peruvian-Bolivian Morenada girl (Colorful outfits with platform high heel boots from Bolivia) and connected with her on Instagram. Took several videos from the parade and uploaded them to Instagram and invited Peruvian accounts as collaborators for more views. Just added Russian electronic music on top of it for a more Western audience. Thus, got some conversations with dance groups. I have no particular agenda. It's just interesting. My cat died of old age this week. I gave her away to family members to look after each time I moved to another country for a while. So I visited a cat store/cat cafe that I know and enquired about their kittens. It's a very high end place and I had a meeting with the owners a year ago about collaborating with content. Although it wasn't my intention in the moment, they want to discuss some business. While technically I am a customer of theirs, there is always room to explore negotiation, value exchange and collaboration.