@Felix Urbanek all the above and I have a mentor I met through MOA who is older than me and has had his fair share of experiences with women. He and I talk about female nature quite often and I even tell him about the girls I’m dealing with at the moment he points out certain things I’m missing or blind spots

@Felix Urbanek Yeah I’m very fortunate that my mentor has been able to help me with multiple aspects, not just dating. Yeah of course. I’m currently doing a bulk at the moment.

@Bryan Cook I’ll take a stab at this. I think it’s a multifaceted approach, probably would need to start with the your physique. It’s not faking if you’ve lifted the weights to get in shape. Excellent in your chosen career and you’ll gain confidence from accomplishments. Go on side quests and have experiences that will give your perspective and additional skills in your tool belt. Not just being able to change a tire or drive stick but hey learn how to ride a motorcycle, boxing, get a pilots license, travel, etc. And then last but not least you establish boundaries with the people on your life. Men and women. I don’t believe in “faking it”. You build it brick by brick. You just have to accept it’s gonna take a while.

@Bryan Cook I see what you’re saying. I mean, I don’t really “wear” the bad boy look. I wear what I like to wear while also educating myself on what’s good men’s fashion. I do copy the basics and when I master that I start to do my own thing. Same thing we do here at MOA. If what I wear conforms to the bad boy look then so be it 🤷🏾‍♂️. And where all the things that I listed come into play is when I actually do get a motorcycle license and ride regularly then I would get a motorcycle jacket - it’s just a tad bit more congruent if that makes sense. I joke about getting tattoos and often girls ask me if I have tattoos because I “act” like someone who they think would have tattoos. But I probably wouldn’t get one because I just know too much what tattoo ink does to your skin lol. So it wouldn’t be “authentic” Guess where I’m going with this is being a bad boy is more than just a look and clothes only enhance the man wearing them but the man is bad boy because he carries himself a certain way. And how you carry yourself can come from a number of things but it’s usually from experience

Haters gonna hate man, but the funny thing is more you ignore people who hate you the more they become obsessed with you. If your biggest critics actually didn’t care about you, they wouldn’t be your biggest critics.

Making sure my clothes fit right was the biggest hack. Then you can show off all that progress in the gym without posting a douchey shirtless selfie