What’s the one thing holding you back from taking action in building your network/social life?

"I don't have the things I want in life." Shut up and add more value. "I don't have the women I want in life." Shut up and add more value. "I don't have the business/career/job I want." Shut up and add more value. "I don't have the high level friends I want." Shut up and add more value. Every relationship is a value exchange. It's sad but true. There's no such thing as unconditional love outside of a mother's love for her children. I'd even go as far to say that a mother/child love isn't even unconditional especially if a child commits a heinous crime, etc. We need to give and give and give in order to get. Whether you believe in the law of attraction, law of reciprocity, karma or another label you want to slap on it. We simply need to help others in order for others to help us. Where can you add more value in the current relationships in your life? Where can you add value to someone you're trying to network with? It doesn't need to be monumental. Most of the time it's something small that opens the door to learn more about the individual in order to add more value down the road. Comment with one specific thing you can do to add more value 👇

Is there anyone in here from Brazil? Hoping to meet someone to talk about particulatiries of the country, network and go out together. If you known someone in the Community who is from Brazil, please tag them.

I usually pay for tinder before I travel so I can start meeting girls beforehand; I edit my main photo so that it says something like "In [place] for a couple of weeks" + emojis of drinks and beach (or whatever the place is famous for) (IN the photo, not in the profile text). Since I can see who liked me, it's a very straightforward process. It works well, especially in places where I look different from locals (Mexico, for instance). But I'm guessing this is a begginer's game when it comes to this here group of men :) So, do you have a protocol when you're travelling alone to a place where you know no one? I'm guessing, in addition to the above: - fix my instagram beforehand and leave it open - bring a tripod for new photos - try to befriend the girls instead of going for one night stand - reach out in IG instead of tinder? (BTW, going to Uruguay in November, if anyone's around)

Found this training through a web search...however, I don't think I have the skills or experience to implement any of this. No social media, few friends. Is there a training/course/action-step more geared towards someone like me, who needs remedial/fundamentals training?