I wanted to start posting comedy content because it's something I'm really into, Plus people have told me to do it for the past nearly decade because I'm really funny in-person, just not yet super confident on camera But I don't know if it's good enough to post as a reel on IG or maybe I should just put it as a highlight instead?? What are your thoughts please? Thanks.

Dumb question - what's the best way to get content / pics / vids that are IG worthy when you're broke as a joke?? Thanks.

I went out for Hallowe'en last night, and started the evening out alone. Physically, at best, I'm a 6 right now, and financially I'm just getting by. Because of my style, presence, and social skill, I was getting women who were 6s or 7s and averaged 35+ years old (I'm 47) coming up to me and starting conversations. A couple hours later my female friend (27 years old), who is a solid 9 arrived. After this, I started getting attention from women in their early to 20s and up who were 7s and 8s. Finally we bumped in to a few of her friends (8s and 9s) and I started getting looked over by most of the women in the room down to 19 years old and the 9s started approaching me as well. I didn't have to approach one woman all night. Sure, I got some interest alone, but it only got better with the female friends.

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Been quiet here for a while. But after 3 years, 20+ of my own events in different cities, and more social reps than I can count, here are 10 things that I now see as non negotiables. 1. Instagram is even more important than I previously thought. I know it's the one thing that gets repeated the most - but even that does not encapsulate how important Instagram really is. I've seen many guys ruined their reputation with Instagram and I have seen a couple that do it extremely well. It has opened many doors for me in dating as well as meeting high value men in my city, if you have not fixed your Instagram, I don't know what you're doing. Important notice: Do not get caught up in constantly thinking "ohh my instagram is not good enough yet so i cant go out meeting people..." Bullshit. I've seen guys get stuck in the fixing phase rather than doing it in parallel. 2. List building is a living document. At the beginning I invited a ton of girls, but never really dared inviting the hottest ones. The biggest realization was that the hotter the girl is the friendlier they are and the more open they are to coming to your event,. The six and sevens are usually the ones that are the less thankful and flaky. Dare to go to the top. 3. Be careful where you spend your time. The more you get known in your city the more people are going to want your time. A lot of people love talking, especially the ones that are "visionaries". This is why we don't listen to the words. Always look at what the person has accomplished rather than what they are planning to accomplish. It's fine if they are at least taking action into the right direction. 4. Compliance is the absolute social cheat code. This took me the longest to understand fully. I used to focus way too much on building Attraction rather than just gathering compliance. If you get this down, you're good to go in all things. 5. You get punished for your insecurities. The world does not reward overly shy people as Tai Lopez would say. This could not be more true. Regardless of what you are insecure about, it really doesn't matter. Most people are completely indulged in their own ego and that's OK. Do whatever you have to to convince yourself that you're good the way you are and put yourself out there. When I say punished, I mean that you are going to get left behind and people start doing things without you - simply because you don't have enough mental real estate for them, you don't get remembered.