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like started talking with a girl in this year jan who i had known for a long time ago . I liked her from jan only didnt knew she liked me too . Idk till when she liked me but when i asked her she told she lost interest and thought i didnt like her gave up . I felt this was going to happen to before i asked 1-2 months i tried meeting her texting her but it just did not came back. Now whenever i see her it is just sad and she is my school . Sad thing she used to like me i felt it but thought first need to start talking offline or idk before i didnt knew that . Tried a lot after feeling she was pulling back but nothing worked . Whenever i see her it is just a flashback i dont even know if i should like start talking to her or what like ignore her idkkk. We are still on good terms but like i cant talk to her as a friend but not talking and ignoring her daily is a challenge it is rly hard knowing i had a real chance . Not desperate for a gf just that she is a rly good person overall Its been 1 and half month since i asked but like time and time again i remember all memories and stuff and yeah it is not easy to overcome it. now whenever i see her or her friends cant make myself to not seem lower . It just feels like i lost .
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@Jon Cooke is all this normal and should i expect myself to heal till now or is it fine cause it is just been like 45 days ?
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hey till when it is available ? rn my exams are like very near so i cannot tell exactly. definitely i will book it but like whats like the deadline if there is one?
SHOULD I READ ANY BOOKS IF YES WHICH ONE?
Hello everyone as i am on improving myself as much can in teenage around 15 16yrs of age i am rn . So i would like some advice on which book u would recommend or u have read to improve yourself , ur mindset improve ur social skills and overall helped you a lot . As there are any things rn going on i will not be able to dedicate hours to books only some time here and there so are there any book recommendations ? Any books which u had read and felt like amazing or any book which u hoped u found earlier to improv ur life. thanks!
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@Siddhant Katariya yeah i do understand that and i tbh actually felt that during school couple of days ago and it did made me feel a bit better when i was just being my authentic like idk and still confused to how to be the authentic does that mean not going with friends everytime they ask or like disagree with many things stil not pretty clear . Just confused in lot of stuf but i wil try to focus and ya ik how imp enjoying life is as like 1 year ago i think i was at the lowest whether it be my sports my friends everything so ya i understood that even if we not the best or be less good but it is imp to enjoy ur life . But may times it is just difficult to that overthinking comes, old memories come which is real hard to deal with . Like when i also see everyone with someone whether be a partner be someone else it just make me think am i wrong for like all this . Should i just also do like everyone like get a gf do insta (as i dont use it ) but it is just tiring now to see people and not myself. I am overwhelmed with stuff so ya idk if i am able to explain my self clearly but hope u would understand . Also btw i am not a introverted person atleast like more towards extroverted side but all this makes me rethink . Thanks for the help
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@Mark Winter Ya i am doing that i have started to workout regularly , try to just talk without trying to think what the other person would think , seeing yt videos about healing ,communication and all the things i feel sad or less good abt , just talk to someone new or someone i do less talk to without thinking they would see my as desperate . Thanks
Constant high expectations and overthinking
Hello everyone i just wanted to share what i have been feeling recently and how to manage with it. This could be a long post but i cant explain in a short simple way . From the past few days everyday when i wake up i am trying to may be improve myself too much especially in social skills and confidence. so whenever i go to school i focus on that which may be sets up a very high expectation from me and from others every single time. So whether i a meeting a friend i do a lot of overthinking. Even thought i have a good amount of friends in school bcuz of all this high expectation from me about them and constant thinking i have to improve in this and i am doing that. All of this is making me quite tired and feeling less happy . i expect atleast any o the person or any one of friends to be with me wherever i go and when it does happen i do overthinking like why he is not coming etc etc. So even might many of my friends are good but i think due to constant expectation i might not be feeling happy even thought i am with them OR IS THERE something wrong on the opposite side. Also bcuz of this whenever i call someone in school and they talk to other at the exact moment even though they respond to me some seconds later but i feel they are ignoring me . I am just tired of this sad thought all day as even though i have friends i feel i am just draining myself and not enjoying my school . Also because of a recent thing with a girl whenever i think about it or some memory pop up abt that i get sad and idk how to overcome that ik the advice "that it is okay to remember that moments sometimes but it is imp to not get lost in these thoughts" but no one tells how to do this . I have been seeing a LOT OF YT VIDEOS abt all this topics and being just more confused and spending a lot of time on this rather than something useful. I feel like i compare myself too much or idk but like feel there are things wrong with me i should improve and when i try and i am not or result not showing i get depressed and sad without any major reason. Idk if i should be friends with many people or just be friends with less . I feel i know all the problems i have with myself and others (thanks to my shit habit of overthinking ) but i am just not able to find solutions to that or may be expecting a magical formula to fix all things .
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@Tom Bidgood hey thank you so much for your advice i will be trying to do this just sometimes some bad days come and it makes the whole process very hard. btw i just thought of start reading book from my school library about these things so is there any book u would recommend ? i got one which i heard a lot abt online ie- how to win friends and be influential anything u would like to suggest abt it or any other thing ? And the online thing i felt is rly cause whenever i open yt and see people with like doing trends , relationship or things like this i just feel sad or left out. One last thing was like sometimes i feel doing all this is it WEIRD or is it rly a GOOD THING cause idk if i have never seen someone doing all this but ya it one thing i feel is if i try to overthink every conversation less it made me feel better ! thanks
How to get back to being very good and know about real friends
hi i am really confused at this point of time as first of all i am young around 15-16 so idk if this is normal to happen or it is happening with only me . Also this is a rly long post so sorry for that but i just wrote what i felt for a brief - i have a lot of friends in school but around 1 or 2 years ago i felt that even though i have a lot of friends and popular i dont think i have a real very good friend and thought i was too giving or laughing so everyone takes me lightly or what. So worked and did a lot of overthinking on that for past year or so. I from the experience i had decided of using thing like dont talk too much or like dont laugh very much and something like this cause i feel after that people take u lightly or like for granted or i expect way too much from each person. So it gave good results more or less people which took me granted either i left them or they understood .But recently what happened was i liked a girl who earlier liked me but recently lost interest in me bcuz she thought i didnt liked her and gave up . so i asked her but she denied as she was not interested now so this was also very sad for me as i thought it was going fine. So again i am feeling sad for the past month or two so felling depressed get into the cycle of overthink and sadness and i am recovering from it but there is just so much confusion as sometimes i feel i have everything but some time i feel i am just another random person. People like me but i am not very close to them . Like i feel many times that even thought i have a lot of friends but i cant stay with them and for too long as i just feel everything is not going correct. It is not i am like sad everyday or dont have friends, not at all but i feel that many times i feel sad thinking everything is going wrong. So there are just some main worries that am i thinking way too much as i dont think anyone think so much about all this and feel like this. I know i am in a position better than many but i want to improve it and be very good as recently i got to know i was rly popular around 1 or 2 years ago but not so much now and with every thing happening it all come at me thinking i am not doing enough or not have enough. Also sometimes i feel i am like not so childish in some things which other are so it separates me a bit and dont have some common habits which everyone has as i consciously dont want to thrash talk much and be on insta and stuff as i want to focus on my sports and career and they are major distractions.
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@Luke Tearle thank for the suggestion . there are some things i am not sure abt like the ting u said how u want to be but i think we would get like very less people to be friends and also if we are not at a certain level of friendship with someone then we cant really be as we like we have to think about the other person as well like ig so? like sometime if u be yourself try to share with people they see you come as desperate it has happened to me so i am not like 100 confident to share not bcuz i think they will make fun of me or something but bcuz it might come as desperate and they slowly start to pull away. There is always like if i share too much or talk too much with this one guy on daily basis then he or she might see that as desperation or like weird which is not wrong tbh like he might feel me irritating if i talk way to much but i dont just find the right way like should i say less ,be secretive, play mind games (in the sense of sharing less ) or just talk too much and loose more people i am just confused in the middle and how to go on with the daily life in these things.
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@Luke Tearle i will try to watch a summary on yt or some videos abt it but sometimes i fee that there are just too many mind games thing many times and i dont feel anyone even focuses on all this overthinking or shit i am focusing on . It is just the thing is i dont care abt random people but i dont want to seem desperate to people i want to make friends and then do all this weird (idk what to say this) things like talking less all these things cause i dont want to come as desperate to especially to them the poeple i want to be friends cause earlier it has happened to me .
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