Hey guys I have some free shit for you... if you can promise to do me a favour. A few of my courses on Udemy need a boost - they need some more reviews. I'm happy to give these courses away for free (limit 5 per course) to people who will commit to do the course and leave a review asap. The courses are: - Master Your Mindset: Conquer Self-Doubt and Succeed - SOLD OUT! - Master Problem Solving and Overcome Any Setback - Money Master: Earny More and Achieve Financial Freedom - Psychopathic Confidence: Unleashing Your Shadow's Power - SOLD OUT! - Fearless Living: Overcomg Fear and Build Unshakable Confidence - Frame Control Mastery: NLP for Confidence and Success - Self Discipline and Focus: Achieve Your Goals Faster If you're dedicated and will follow through with a review, please comment below with the name of the course/s you're willing to engage in and leave a review within the next week. First in, first served! Dan

Comment below with something you're proud of yourself for.. Don't qualify it or minimize it, just practice being proud of your achievements, valued living, and good decisions.

Today I want to recognize one of my former clients Tony. He came to me after breaking up with his long-term partner and feeling like he'd completely lost who he was. Years of Nice Guy Syndrome in a deteriorating marriage where he constantly compromised his needs to placate his wife had left him an empty shell and socially isolated. One thing I love about my work is seeing people recover from NGS quicker than me! Tony LEAPED into the work. Within a few conversations he was out meeting strangers, expressing attraction directly, and creating a love life he never imagined was possible. Then he took it a step further, quitting his safe trade job to pack everything up and travel to Asia. There he embraced a lifestyle of letting go of control and just backing himself to make bold decisions. Tony now knows who he is, what he wants from life, and who he'd like to spend that time with. One of the fastest transitions I've ever witnessed, because he was radically honest and extremely brave. Congrats to Tony - well earned!

New full length video out today! Overthinking isn’t wisdom — it’s a delay tactic. We tell ourselves we’re “thinking it through,” but most of the time we’re just stalling. True decisions only happen when we cross the line from thought into action. In this video, I break down why overthinking is really just fear in disguise, how it pretends to be your friend, and why it quietly sabotages your progress. You’ll discover the 3× Model — Think → Act → Reflect → repeat — and learn how to use small, simple actions to break the cycle of procrastination. I’ll also show you how to spot when you’ve crossed the line from useful thinking into mental loops, why more information isn’t always the answer, and how setting time limits can unleash better decisions and faster progress. If you’ve ever felt stuck planning and re-planning instead of moving forward, this video will give you the tools to break free, take that first small step, and start building real momentum in your life. 👉 Your turn: What’s one area of your life where overthinking has held you back? Drop it in the comments — I’d love to hear your story and how you’re planning to take your first small action. Watch the video here:

Hello everyone I am a newcomer to this group, and because this week and this morning has been challengin. I began the week having suicidal thoughts. I spent most of Tuesday evening unable to sleep and thinking of ways of killing myself. It is it the first time and for the past two years, I've had those thoughts regularly. I have three beautiful dogs, and normally the worry of who is going to look after them, had stopped me from doing anything. So, instead of killing myself, I practiced self harm - unhealthy life style. I have had HIV for 30 years so practicing an unhealthy life style is as close and it gets to passive suicide. Yesterday I made a commitment that I wouldn't do anything until I have tried all the possibilities. This morning I woke up very frustrated. I was walking my dogs, feeling frustrated because at the moment living conditions and financial situation are very challenging. It feel powerless and frustrated. Now the only thing that I had control over - my body - I have relinquished my power and lost the right to do whatever I please with it. Unfortunately my dogs got the wrong side of my frustration. One of them wanted to go out at 6am. Normally we go out at 7.30am so I thought she was desperate. When we are out, I realised that she just wanted to go out soon. There was no urgency. When we got back home, I shouted at them, I smashed a breakfast bowl on the floor, and I carried on shouting saying: can I just have a fucking hour for myself in the morning!? I don't fucking wake up early to take you out. I cleaned up the mess, and I got my shamanic drum out, and I did some meditation to get rid off the frustration. The frustration is still there. Bubbling and this is why I thought to share this here. I don't know if I am allowed to share this kind of info but at this moment it is more satisfying than hitting my forehead against a wall.