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Sep '25 •
👋 Welcome! Let's get to know each other
We want this community to feel like a safe space where we can all support each other's marriage journeys. Let's start with introductions! You can use this simple format: Hey, I'm from ________________. I'm here because ________________. The biggest thing I'm working on in my marriage right now is ________________. Examples: - "Hey, I'm Sarah from Texas. I'm here because we keep having the same fights over and over and I'm exhausted." - "I'm Mike from Ohio. I'm here because my wife and I feel like roommates and I want that spark back." - "I'm Lisa from Florida. I'm here because my husband won't engage in fixing our problems and I'm trying to figure out how to create change on my own." - No judgment here - just real people working on real relationships. The more we know about each other, the better we can support and encourage one another. Drop your intro below! 👇
Mar 5 •
Update Your Maps
Imagine trying to navigate New York City with a map from 2015. You’d get lost. You think you know your spouse. But often, you know who they used to be. People change. Dreams change. Fears change. If you are operating on an old map, you will miss who they are today. Map Update Question: What is something you genuinely value or enjoy now that you didn't care much about five years ago?
Mar 8 •
Slow to Speak
James 1:19: "Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry." If we are honest, most of us are the opposite: Slow to listen, quick to speak, and very quick to get angry. We listen to argue, not to understand. The Pause: In your next conversation, try this. When your spouse finishes talking, wait 3 seconds before you respond. Make space for grace.
21d •
No Mind Reading
"I shouldn't have to tell him. He should just know." This is the sentence that kills marriages. It assumes that love = telepathy. It doesn't. Your spouse cannot read your mind. They cannot guess your feelings. Clarity is kindness. If you need a hug, ask for a hug. If you need help, ask for help. Stop testing them and start talking to them.
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