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Book Recommendations
- The Velvet Rage (Overcoming the pain of growing in a straight man's world) - Attached (New science of adult attachment and how it can help you find and keep love) - The ethical slut (A practical guide to polyamory, open relationships and other freedoms in sex and love) - Out of the shadows (Reimagining gay men's lives) If you have more book recommendations, please add them in the comments below. Also Dylan mentioned in our today's call that a bookclub would be awesome, what do you guys think, interested?
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Welcome! Introduce yourself 🎉
Welcome to the #1 Community for gay men focused on real connection, personal growth, and raising standards in health, dating, and life. Remember, this journey is about progress, not perfection. Show up each day with kindness, curiosity, and a willingness to post or ask anything you’d like to do. We can all support each other along the way. Step 1: Download the Skool app to make your experience easier: Get the iOS app here. Get the Android app here. And turn on your notifications! Step 2: Introduce yourself: Where are you from and what do you like to do for fun? ☺️ ALSO: This Group Is For All Of Us! Please feel free to ask questions, share wins, tell stories, vent a little, or post whatever’s on your mind. Just pick a category below and jump in. Don’t wait for me to be the only one starting the good conversations. This group gets better when all of us bring something to the table. You never know — your post might help someone else, spark a great conversation, or make another guy feel a little less alone. This is a judgment-free zone. Bring honesty, curiosity, and good energy. If someone shows up rude, weird, or disrespectful… I’ll take care of it 😎
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Coffee Hour Monday 6pm PDT (07/20)
Brotherhood call! Topic idea: How to thrive in a culture of body perfection! Who’s joking, comment below or give me a thumbs up! ☺️
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Need some options...
I'm hoping I can get some opinions on meeting other people in the wild. I struggle with making new friends and I need to be better about being out there, which is part of the reason why I joined this group. My biggest fear is (cliché) getting hurt again. I've been honest about myself in the past and it has lost me a lot of really close friends, so I learned a lot of people pleasing skills growing up (like many of us do). Now, Indiana is not queer friendly at all. The closest place i have to go to is a small club in Bloomington (~1hr away) or make the 2ish hour drive to Indianapolis. I don't do well in clubs or packed rooms. I've tried joining classes and going to parks. I'm at a loss and feel like it's something I'm doing or not doing. Any ideas or suggestions? (Also thought it might be nice in case other people need some ideas too 🙂)
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Howdy! (And more)
Hello, I am Santosh, 39 years old. I was born in India and moved to the US when I was 20. I came out very late (around 32) and it took even longer to get comfortable with being gay. I met my ex through FB dating and were together for 3 years. He was my first real boyfriend. I lost my dad last year and that event triggered a lot of emotions (having grown up in an abusive home). I broke up with my ex of 3 years later that year. I remember feeling desperate and turning to online apps right after the breakup for reassurance, but fortunately that phase didn’t last long. I have been reflecting on everything that happened the last year and realized that my choices around dating/relationship stem from unhelpful patterns from my childhood and repressed sexuality. I have been working with my therapist to work through these patterns so I don’t repeat those same mistakes. I am curious - What patterns (good or bad) have you seen about yourself or the partners you choose?
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