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39 contributions to 🏳️‍🌈The "ME" Project🏳️‍🌈
Your Win This Week? ☺️
What’s your win from this week? What made you feel grateful, or what’s a funny story that made you laugh out loud?
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@Philip L that’s a huge step! Congratulations, you can be very proud of yourself. ☺️
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@Gustavo Flores sometimes waxing the extra mile pays off. Be the light for others ☺️🙏🏼 love that
Monogamy vs Ethical non Monogamy
What do you believe in? I would like to hear your theory and why it works out for you ☺️
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@Greg Henriques Really appreciate you sharing this—it’s honest and grounded. I love your point that communication always matters, just in different ways depending on the relationship. And the idea of “taking turns” in growth vs. needing equal emotional maturity is powerful. What stood out most is your awareness that love is a choice you keep making—and your openness to uncertainty. That takes real strength. Also love that you’re expanding into deeper platonic connections. That’s such a healthy way to bring new life into a relationship. “Right now I love him more than ever” — says it all ❤️
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@Gustavo Flores same same! I’m not sure if I could be in an open relationships but never say never I guess.
Coffee break tomorrow 11am PDT (4/15)
Topic: internalized Homophobia (I might record that one) Who’s joining? ☺️
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@Greg Henriques I love that! That’s a beautiful reminder for all of us! 🙏🏼🥰
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@Gustavo Flores oh yeah, it’s a thing :) when you grew and tried not to be too much, too gay, control ourselves. Parents avoiding us or the conversations around being gay, religion is a huge topic as well. Seeing straight people as the norm and maybe wishing to be straight too or thinking that straight people have it easier etc we will for sure talk about again soon. Ask chat lol
Welcome! Introduce yourself 🎉
Welcome to the #1 Community for gay men focused on real connection, personal growth, and raising standards in health, dating, and life. Remember, this journey is about progress, not perfection. Show up each day with kindness, curiosity, and a willingness to post or ask anything you’d like to do. We can all support each other along the way. Step 1: Download the Skool app to make your experience easier: Get the iOS app here. Get the Android app here. And turn on your notifications! Step 2: Introduce yourself: Where are you from and what do you like to do for fun? ☺️ ALSO: This Group Is For All Of Us! Please feel free to ask questions, share wins, tell stories, vent a little, or post whatever’s on your mind. Just pick a category below and jump in. Don’t wait for me to be the only one starting the good conversations. This group gets better when all of us bring something to the table. You never know — your post might help someone else, spark a great conversation, or make another guy feel a little less alone. This is a judgment-free zone. Bring honesty, curiosity, and good energy. If someone shows up rude, weird, or disrespectful… I’ll take care of it 😎
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@Mark van Tol thank you so much for sharing a little bit about you and I’m very sorry what you had to go through. I hope this group will give you some support and answers to maybe some of your questions you might have. You’re not alone :) Welcome to the group and I’m looking forward to talking to you soon.
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@Gustavo Flores I’m so glad you’re here and thank you for sharing a little bit about you. California is the place to be :D hope to talk to you soon at our next call.
English Expat in Sweden
Hi so I just joined this group, loved the vibe .. lack of anger and judgement. I am a life coach working specifically with anyone who has been sexually abused as a child/ adolescent. I feel that my personal experience has been very useful in helping others move on… otherwise I am happily married for 10 years but together for more than 30 ! Have 4 crazy sausage girls … 2 parrots and a huge collection of…. Anything and everything ! Currently planning on moving to Italy as age prefers heat ! Cheers
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They Andrew, thanks for the intro. Sounds like a great plan to move to Italy ☺️ Looking forward to talk to you soon on one of our calls.
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Frederik Schaaf
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Exploring the art of living well - on a mission to master health, love & wealth. Fueled by curiosity, guided by growth.

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Joined Aug 1, 2025
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