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Community Guidelines — How We Keep This Space Safe & Supportive
Welcome to The BridgeThis community works best when it feels like a good dinner table open conversation, curiosity, and respect all around. Here’s how we do that: 1. Listen to understand, not to reply.Everyone’s story deserves space. We come from different paths, that's our strength. 2. Share your wins and your wobbles.Growth isn’t linear, and vulnerability is welcome here. 3. No fixing without permission.Advice is great when it’s invited. Ask first, then share. 4. Keep it kind. No personal attacks. We’re here to build each other up, not prove each other wrong. 5. Confidentiality matters.What’s shared here stays here. Trust is the soil this community grows from. 6. Promote with purpose.If you have something to share (a project, idea, or event), make sure it aligns with the spirit of connection and contribution. 7. Engage with curiosity. Ask questions. Respond to others. Show up this only works if we do it together.
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Welcome to the bridge! Introduce yourself + share something!
Let's get to know each other! Comment below sharing where you are in the world, your favourite song or movie, and something you like to do for fun. 😊
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Welcome to the Bridge
We're here to rediscover joy, purpose, and connection. You’ve spent decades showing up for your family, your career, your community but now life looks different. The kids are grown (or growing). Work isn’t your identity anymore and somewhere between what was and what’s next you’re asking “What do I actually want this next chapter to look like?” If that question hits home you’re in the right place. Here, we explore what it means to live fully and intentionally not by chasing reinvention, but by reconnecting with the parts of ourselves that got buried under responsibility. This community is about clarity, courage, and curiosity — and rediscovering joy in connection. What We Share Here We have three main focus areas: 1️⃣ Relationship Stuff — The People Who Matter. How to stay close, connected, and sane with kids, partners, friends, and family as life shifts. 2️⃣ Passions & Play — Let the Good Times Roll! Rediscover what makes you feel alive — hobbies, volunteering, travel, or creative sparks that make time disappear. 3️⃣ Navigating Singleness (or Stillness)Redefining love, intimacy, and companionship in a way that feels grounded and true. We’ll also touch on mindset shifts — the small, inner recalibrations that make these transitions not just easier, but exciting.
Dating your friends
I know I know you probably thought I was talking about romantically dating people from your friend group. I am not going there .. today anyway. When you are meeting up with people you see as romantic and erotic prospects the tendency is to try to impress them. Whether you are interested in a new spicy link up or looking for a long term relationship the urgency in locking them down often feels very real. When it comes to our friends there is a beautiful comfort in being able to do less. Sometimes this is wonderful. I would like to encourage you that it is worth it to make plans that are more robust. Be curious and try to make an effort it helps your friends feel valued and seen. You can do this by flipping through the following ideas. 1. Plan something you think they would enjoy 2. Share an experience with them that you love 3. Plan something together that you both think would be enjoyable 4. Make time to do something that you know they need help with Yes catching up is great and needed. Simple hang outs are the stuff that friendships are built on. Every now and then it's nice to give more than just the pleasure of your company . If you have any ideas let me know below
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“What does a healthy, high-functioning relationship actually require?”
This is not romance advice. These are the things i would say about any healthy relationship. Healthy relationships require structure I would break structure into standards, responsibility, the ability to repair and healthy communication. A lot of people try to model their relationships after the structure they see online or in movies. This doesn't work because *NEWSFLASH* at best the people online are showing you their highlight reel.. at worst like the movies what they are showing you doesn't exist it's meant to tantalize and or entertain. Structure is the framework which the people in the relationship agree to. There is no uniform structure that all friendships, families or romantic relationships can or will follow and work well. What I have seen work are a mixture of curiosity, vulnerability and mutual respect. Those traits will lead to actions that help relationships to succeed and thrive long term. They drive everything from the desire to see the other person do well to wanting to share fun or interesting experiences together. Lastly, comparing your relationships to other relationships or worse yet to imaginary ones is the root of a lot of bitterness and despair. It's funny one of the major things I share in all of my best relationships is the ability to laugh together. Even through the hard times. How are you planning to level up your relationships in the next month or season?
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