Ever seen a divorce attorney with a hard sales pitch?
This post is kinda long but the payoff is worth it. I was on a conference call today with marketing legend Perry Belcher and he dropped that zinger on us. I searched my brain and of course, I've never seen a divorce attorney make a hard sales pitch. Perry explained why. Have you ever noticed that most people are crystal clear when you ask them what they DON'T want in life? I don't want my back to hurt. I don't want to be embarrassed when I smile. I don't want to show up fat to the reunion. I don't want my ex to raise my kids. Etc. But when you ask them what they DO want they are usually kinda fuzzy? Now we business owners and managers are trained to set clear, achievable goals so that's within our skillset. But have you ever asked your kids what they want out of life? Or your spouse? Or an employee? Crazy right? Most of the world is walking around knowing exactly what they DON'T want out of life in clear vivid detail. And they only have vague, amorphous ideas of what they might like to have... someday. Stick with me, I'm going somewhere. Perry says that the reason that divorce attorneys don't have to make hard pitches for their service is, by the time people are looking for a divorce attorney, they are in so much pain that they will do anything to get out! All the attorney needs to do is show them the way. I recently had a conversation with a client who sent me a help wanted ad they wrote for an open position. The ad was beautifully crafted, grammatically correct, factual, and detailed. However, there was one glaring issue: the ad focused almost entirely on what THEY wanted in a candidate, rather than what the CANDIDATE wants in a shop. It's a common mistake that many shop owners and managers make when writing help wanted ads. In an effort to attract top performers, they emphasize requirements like "dedication to excellence," "high performance," "fast-paced environment," and "looking for top performers." While these qualities are undoubtedly important, focusing solely on them can be intimidating to potential candidates.