What do you think ?
So me and this girl were friends for like maybe 5 months , and I was okay with her behavior and everything nothing too aggressive even though one time she judged my beliefs but I've let that slide .
Then until last week , I was sitting with her in the school yard I'd say , and a classmate of ours was with us we were talking , and the girl completely changed a behavior in front of him which I've noticed before but I never knew it was the pick me behavior . I thought she was like that .
Anyways , she was wearing a jacket , she took it off then she wore it again and she stood up then she sit right again . She literally disturbed me but I didn't say anything cuz it didn't trigger me that much , then in a moment she made really uncomfortable when I said hold on I wanna find an empty classroom so I can record some covers for Instagram , I went to search and she turned around telling him oh look she has the walk of Michael Jackson , she's literally jealous of my model-like walk I suppose .
Then I returned and I said , there's no empty classrooms , she said oh here's the restroom go and record there ....
That was nasty , but yeah .
Then I said no I won't and the guy said you want spirits to possess her or what ? I said I don't believe in spirits she said oh I can smell a Jewish person here .... How can you say that ?? And she followed by : oh don't tell me that I'm dealing with atheists right now , wait do you believe in God ? I said yes for the sake of ending her conversation because she's way too religious and that's not my thing . She labeled me atheist just because I said I don't believe in spirits not God lol.
Afterwards , she started to give me weird stares , then she was speaking in English and she messed up a sentence so I hurried up to correct her which I normally do and she doesn't take it to heart , she literally said oh stfu stared at me and continued what she was saying to that guy .
I literally didn't talk much to her that afternoon and then I messaged her on telegram saying girl you violated a boundary of mine saying that she said I was joking can't you get it !!? I can't believe that you thought of me like that .
And she literally showed me her true colors she got super aggressive in messages and defensive like I am the one who's done her dirty .
She said yeah if you think I'm disrespectful, then from now on I'm disrespectful and take it or leave it , plus I'm tired and I don't have time for your problems . ( Using circumstances to justify abusive behavior , that's manipulation and I know that very well she's not fooling me )
And then she proceeded the morning after to bring me a " late birthday gift " when the day before she was saying I don't have money not time to buy you anything .
And guess what ? The candle she brought me broke in pieces as soon as I got home . I threw it away
And I've cut HER OFF . I don't need that typa energy around me .
If you got til this point , thank you for taking your precious time to read this 💕
So what do you guys think ??
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