Week 2 Classroom Community Task Post

Following on from last week where I identified my pattern as being a shrinker, I’d like to post where my pattern stems from. Me being a shrinker makes sense because I learned it from when I was at school. This is specifically due to judgement from peers or teachers which caused me to develop this pattern to essentially fit in and stay away from any spotlight. Which I have now come to find that it won’t benefit you further on in life as being unique is something that sets us apart and even if we are in the spotlight for it we shouldn’t care about others’ opinions about us. Futhermore, this pattern has followed me everywhere eversince e.g in work, outside and in social gatherings which can have a detrimental effect on my development in the long term including: Missing out on key opportunities to do with work and other aspects of life, socialising with others and my overall character. I’ll now shift the spotlight away from myself and ask you guys, Where did your pattern come from? (Only Answer If Comfortable)

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