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April 28th: Live with James Lawley (GentZ)! 🎙️
Get ready, gents! We have a very special guest joining us for our April 28th LIVE call. @James Lawley (GentZ) — founder of Gentlemen's Collective and a man who's built something real from the ground up — is coming on to share his story. How he got started, what he learned along the way, and how leveling up your style is really about leveling up yourself. Whether you're just starting your style journey or you've been in the game for years, this is going to be a conversation that hits. Laid-back, honest, and packed with value. 📅 The Details - Event: Style, Confidence & the Come-Up — Live with James Lawley - Special Guest: @James Lawley (GentZ) - When: Tuesday, April 28th - Time: 5:00 PM – 6:00 PM Central US - Meeting Link: Click here to join the call - Drop your questions in the comments below — I want to make sure we cover what matters most to YOU. Let's pack this call and show @James Lawley what this community is all about. See you Tuesday! 🚀✨
April 28th: Live with James Lawley (GentZ)! 🎙️
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The power of Pink
I’ve spoken many many times about the three conservative foundational menswear shirt colors in American Classic Timeless Menswear: Blue White and Pink. For at least 70 plus years these have been the primary colors for men’s shirts. The reason is simple. These three color of shirts are virtually interchangable in tie and suit /sportcoat options thus they “conserve” one funds thus they are “conservative” Many guys get pink confused with other colors like lavender, ecru, or yellow. While those last three certainly can be used very adroitly in many ensembles and can look outstanding (especially lavender) as a bold break from convention, they are not nearly as primary as pink. I look at pink as blue’s and white’s slightly more dynamic cousin. Some guys still harbor some rather childish “little boys wear blue little girls wear pink” sentiments but to me that sounds like the same guys who can’t understand why you would wear a sportcoat and slacks out instead of jeans, graphic hoodies, and baseball caps. If one want to wear jeans and an hoodie and a baseball cap out on the town-who cares -nbd. Yet if that person wants to condescend to one wearing a sport coat and slacks-which of these two are being childish? If you have an issue with guys who wear pink take it up with the guys in the last 3 pics OOTD 1995 MTM medium grey suit 1982 ancient matter silk RL tie CT pink oxford Cream and blue silk pocket square J Fitzpatrick black captoes
The power of Pink
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This Stops Being About Clothes
There's a shift that happens for some men. They stop asking "does this look okay?" and start knowing. Not because they memorized rules — but because they've built a standard for themselves. A quiet confidence that doesn't need to announce itself. You see it in how they walk into a room. In how people respond to them before they say a word. In how much mental energy they have left for things that actually matter. That's not style. That's identity. And identity isn't bought — it's built, through consistent habits and deliberate choices made over time. That's what RMRS Premium is designed for. Not trends. Not outfit grids. A structured path to becoming the man who looks sharp because of who he is — not what he's wearing. If that shift sounds like something you want, the door's open: https://www.skool.com/rmrs/plans
This Stops Being About Clothes
Purging vs. expansive use
I have been watching Ash on the YouTube channel, The Chap's Guide. He often talks about how he purges sections of his wardrobe because he does not use the full array of items (e.g., ties or shoes). If there are items you simply do not use anymore because you no longer like the item then purging is appropriate. For example, purging all synthetic ties, eliminating duplicate shoes of the same class and color - such as black cap toe oxfords - by removing the less desirable pair). This is a solid reason for purging and I do this as well. I mostly donate to charity, though I am considering trying the seller's side of eBay. If, on the other hand (as Ash did with his ties a few years back), you are purging items you actually like but regret not wearing, I suggest it is very correctable, gives you many more outfit combinations, and will make you feel like you are getting your value of all of your wardrobe. Most of you know I am a proponent of using AI for my daily outfit selections. This process helps me take on a number of wardrobe use goals: don't wear the same viewable wardrobe piece in front of clients for the past 5 visits, don't wear any item within 5 days of the last wear (watches and some others excluded), work to drop the cost per wear for items with the least percent drop in CPW once per week and the raw CPW once per week. Keeping track of cost and when you last wore an item is easy and encourages you, say once per week, we wear an item that has not been worn in a while. When you do this, you also expand your outfit diversity, especially to those who see you on a daily basis. My office assistant quickly noticed that I never wear the same outfit and now he asks how he can do that in his life. BUT!! You do not need an Excel database to maximize using your less worn outfits. If you know you have 50 ties, ask your phone or smart speaker to pick a random number between 1 and 50. Then, wear tie 28 (if that's what it picked) on your tie rack that day. Ash says that after getting rid of 100 ties, he still only wears about 10 of his 100 remaining ties. One time per week, if he used simple random numbers, 90% of the time he would wear a less used tie. That new option can get him to consider a different outfit layout than he has been using lately.
OOTD-CW - 23 April 2026
Every now and then, client work has to get done. That's today. Too many additional tasks this week, so today will be narrowing the focus to advancing client projects. I had a few requirements for today's outfit, including a jacket and vest, which allows me to adapt to whichever outer layer works best throughout the day. [OOTD] Spring Transitional: Green Linen, Brown Tweed, and Earth Tones for a Light Business Day Context: 68°F mostly sunny spring Thursday. Low-stakes day — a physician's appointment and internal video calls. No client-facing meetings, which gave me latitude to play with texture and color rather than lean on a matched suit. Forced the jacket + odd slacks + odd vest template because it's one of my favorite silhouettes and this weather begs for it. Color Story — "Earth Tones with a Spring Green Accent": Anchored by the brown tweed jacket; lifted by a green linen shirt; bridged by mid-gray wool slacks; and pulled together with a natural linen vest that echoes the shirt's spring character while softening the mid-section. All metals silver; all leathers warm brown. Watch's hunter green dial picks up the shirt — deliberate echo, not a match. The Outfit - Shirt — DS-027 (Paul Fredrick): Green linen long-sleeve dress shirt with point collar and barrel cuffs. Breathable and seasonally appropriate for a 68°F spring day, with a soft hand that plays well against the tweed jacket's texture. Linen under tweed is unconventional — linen says spring, tweed says autumn — but at this temperature it reads as an intentional transitional piece. - - Undershirt — US-017 (True Classic): Carbon cotton/poly crew-neck undershirt chosen as a safe neutral under the green linen. Light drape keeps it invisible under the shirt while managing moisture on a mild day. - - Slacks — SL-021 (Ralph Lauren): Mid-gray wool basket-weave slacks with light blue and light brown threads woven through. Q4-2025 retailored, so they sit properly and bridge cleanly between the brown tweed jacket above and the tan suede shoes below. The basket-weave adds texture without competing with the tweed. - - Odd Jacket — DOJ-005 (Ralph Lauren): Brown tweed cashmere/wool blend blazer with light brown suede elbow patches and two-button single-breasted construction. Medium weight and full-lined — warm enough for a 68°F morning, not overbearing by afternoon. The patches add a subtle academic note without crossing into costume territory. - - Vest — VWC-004 (Perry Ellis): Natural linen herringbone single-breasted vest with cream buttons. Chosen specifically to break up the tweed-over-shirt density and introduce a breathable mid-layer. The cream tone bridges the shirt's green and the jacket's brown, keeping the earth-tone palette cohesive. - - Tie — NT-019 (Michael Kors): Light gold/brown silk tie with a small diamond pattern. Gold is the connector between the cream vest, brown jacket, and caramel belt/shoes. Tied in a Half-Windsor to balance the 4.25" point collar. - - Pocket Square — PS-025 (GB Selected): Beige cotton pocket square with a large tone-on-tone border. Deliberately understated in a Flat/Presidential fold — the tie is already doing the pattern work, and the cotton's matte finish complements rather than competes with the silk tie. . - - Belt — B-010 (Magnanni): Caramel brown leather belt with a slight swirl finish and silver buckle. Leather (not suede) honors the in-person meeting rule while the caramel tone bridges the tan suede shoes and brown tweed jacket. - - Footwear — DSh-013 (Brooks Brothers): Light tan suede "Dirty Bucks" with crepe-adjacent soles. Perfect for the tweed-and-linen register on a mild day. - - Socks — DSo-077 (Personal choice): Over-the-calf dress socks selected to bridge shoes and trousers while staying compliant with Rule 2E for in-person meetings. OTC construction keeps skin covered when seated. - - Watch (Left) — W-005 (Fossil): Townsman Automatic with hunter green dial, Havana brown leather strap, and stainless case. Practically made for this outfit — the green dial echoes the shirt, the Havana strap ties into the belt/shoes/jacket, and the silver case keeps metal coordination consistent. - - Pen — P-002 (Montblanc): Montblanc Fountain Pen 149. The 99% default per Rule 2G — a leadership-grade writing instrument that carries the silver-metal story into my jacket's pen slot. - - Wedding Ring — R-001 (Outfit Accessory): Always worn, per Rule 2I. - - Business Card Case — BCC-002 (Fort Belvedere): Brown/tan leather bifold card case with silver hardware. Aligns perfectly with the day's caramel-and-silver accessory palette and slips neatly into the jacket's inner card pocket. - - Fragrance — FR-001 (Montblanc Legend): Clean aromatic fougère — bergamot, lavender, oakmoss. Office-safe, present but never intrusive, and an excellent match for a mild-weather day with a physician's visit and internal calls. -
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