Why Men Must Take Care of Themselves, Even After Marriage Looking sharp is not superficial. For men, it can change how people treat you, how your kids see you, and how confidently you move through the world. Anthony Buntyn sits down with Chad Smith, newly appointed Director of International Affairs with the Society of Ordinary Gentlemen, for a conversation about style, fatherhood, military discipline, and what it really means to lead a family well. Anthony and Chad break down why presentation still matters, even when you are married, busy, and juggling work, kids, and responsibilities. Chad shares how he balances civilian contract work after 26 years in the Australian Navy, an active role in his daughters' lives, and a marriage built on teamwork while his wife serves in the Australian Air Force. You'll discover: - Why your appearance creates instant assumptions, for better or worse - How Chad uses daily routines like school drop-offs, coffee runs, and outfit prep to stay connected with his daughters - The difference between being the "man of the house" and building a shared household - Why fatherhood is about modeling standards, not just providing - How military training, preparation, and discipline carry into civilian life - Why having an outlet with other men matters for mental health, perspective, and growth Anthony also explores the deeper stakes behind the conversation - from how children learn what healthy masculinity looks like to why too many men and fathers stay disconnected until a crisis forces them to pay attention. This episode is perfect for men navigating marriage, parenting, military transition, or simply trying to become more intentional about how they show up every day. If you want practical wisdom on being a better husband, father, and gentleman, this is a conversation you will want to hear.

On The Gentleman of Faith Podcast Titled: "Choose Respect Over Fear" Fear is not making you stronger - it is making you smaller. Anthony Buntyn breaks down why the image of the "tough guy" can sabotage your life, your relationships, and your future, and why respect is the real foundation of leadership, faith, and influence. Anthony shares the personal journey that shaped this message, from growing up with a speech impediment and insecurity to realizing that intimidation may get attention, but it never builds trust. He draws a sharp line between being feared and being respected, showing how fear creates distance, silence, and hidden opposition, while respect creates support, loyalty, and real connection. You'll discover: - Why people judge you in the first 10 seconds - and why that matters - How a "tough" persona can cost you opportunities at work, at home, and in business - The difference between fear, reverence, and genuine respect - Why changing how you dress, speak, and carry yourself can change how people respond to you - How faith and character shape the way others see you - Why Anthony believes the best version of a man is one who leads with dignity, not intimidation He also shares how the Society of Ordinary Gentlemen helped him grow into the man he wanted to become, along with practical encouragement for men who want to improve themselves, mentor the next generation, and live in a way that reflects their calling. Along the way, Anthony highlights the power of community, accountability, and intentional self-presentation - including the details of his journey with suits, etiquette, and even fragrances that help reinforce a gentleman's standard. If you have ever felt pressure to act hard, hide vulnerability, or prove your strength by making others uncomfortable, this episode will challenge that mindset. It is a direct, honest call for men of faith to choose respect over fear and to become someone people can trust, follow, and support. Perfect for men who are rebuilding their identity, growing in faith, or learning how to lead with confidence and character.

Headed up to Amarillo for a few hours today. Meetings with contractors and distributors. - heather gray polo with company logo - Brown leather Buckley belt - Slim fit tailored blue jeans - Brown lace up boots

I don't know about you guys, but Fall is by far my favorite season here in the Chicagoland area. You get to wear great shirts, boots, jackets and coats. I'm breaking into my Fall stuff a little early. Today I'm wearing my Timberland Pro pants, Smith Mills flannel, Hamilton Khaki King watch, and one of my pair of Asolo hiking boots. If you do any resl hiking or orienteering like I do, you owe it to yourself to try a pair of Asolo boots. They are true hikers, not your typical Merrell, Keen, or Salomon (although some of the Salomon boots are actually quite capable hikers, just not quite as hard core as the Asolo's) Wednesday is typically my last day of the week in the office as I'm generally remote on Thursday and Friday. I'll get back to my Wednesday suit days soon, too. Warner