Yesterday, I sported this outfit for my weekly office hustle. Since I received a very positive feedback on RMRS on my casual date night dress with my new chore coat, I decided to dress up for the office by swapping the Tee in this outfit (https://www.skool.com/rmrs/the-dressier-chore-coat?p=3d485016) with a royal blue shirt (with very small prints). I also brought in my chocolate brown derbies for the moccasins and wore tan crew socks to complete the look. THE TOP: Button up shirt with small prints (dots) in royal blue (100% cotton and wrinkle resistant). THE LAYER: Sand chore coat in cotton twill (9 Oz) THE BOTTOM: Beige MTM chinos with high waist. THE WATCH: Brown strap, gold-on-silver dial frame. THE FOOTWEAR: Brown derbies. THE BELT: Tan (reversible with black leather). THE SOCKS: Crew in tan. THE PERFUME: Solid cologne. There is small detail worth noting. After pulling my jacket sleeves up to my elbows, I folded my shirt sleeves and then folded the sleeves of the jacket to get a double fold look with about half-an-inch peep of the shirt fabric underneath the jacket folded sleeves. This took some time to achieve; nevertheless, I am not complaining 🙂! I got a couple of complements ("great jacket" and "looking superb" 🙂) from my colleagues. Of course, your feedback is most welcome! Cheers.

LATE post today. It's been done but, as I was trying to wrap up items before heading out for a few days, internet went out in the office. I got to play IT for 3 hours before I finally got it resolved so the office could have this essential service without worrying about rectifying it themselves. The outfit allowed me to be in work mode and travel mode, driving down to the inland San Diego area. • Dress Shirt — DS-047 (Charles Tyrwhitt): White non-iron herringbone in slim fit with French cuffs. The herringbone weave provides subtle texture while maintaining formality 5/5. Made in Vietnam, featuring a classic point collar and adjustable French cuffs for cufflink presentation. High opacity ensures no undershirt show-through. • Slacks — SL-026 (Suitsupply): Mid blue wool-silk-linen blend suit trousers from the Havana line. Summer weight plain weave with high rise, hook & bar closure, and side-adjusters plus suspender buttons. Made in Italy, these straight-leg trousers with slight cuffs deliver business classic formality with excellent warm-weather breathability. Part of a new Suitsupply Havana suit (SJ-017 pairing). • Suspenders — SB-009 (Kirby Allison): Burgundy silk with white London dot pattern on Y-back configuration. UK-made with silver metal hardware and black calf leather button attachments. 1.5" width, fully adjustable. The burgundy ties to the tie and cufflinks while the silver hardware coordinates with the vest buckle. • Vest — VWC-004 (Perry Ellis): Natural linen herringbone waistcoat with cream/bone buttons and silver dual-direction rear buckle. The single-breasted 5-button design with slot pockets provides layered business formality while the breathable linen fabric maintains comfort in warmer weather. • Necktie — NT-068 (Brownstone): Red ancient madder silk with blue, ivory, and olive medallion pattern. 3-fold construction with slip stitch, tipped, 56" length and 3.5" width. USA-made (via Poshmark bundle). The low-sheen finish and 2/5 pattern scale delivers refined business formal presence without overpowering. The burgundy/red tones echo the suspenders and cufflinks. I believe something in the Poshmark post was wrong, as I have never seen ancient madder made in the USA...

In today’s society, the decline of traditional gentlemanly qualities has become increasingly evident, leading to what many perceive as a crisis in masculinity. Are men truly stepping into their roles as gentlemen, or are we witnessing an extinction of these vital virtues? This post explores why embracing the principles of a true gentleman is essential for individuals and society at large, highlighting the importance of reestablishing morals, morals, and standards for the next generation. Recent years have shown a shift in societal expectations and behaviors, with many men neglecting the core traits that define a gentleman—respect, integrity, morals, and chivalry. Anthony Buntyn passionately discusses how society has veered away from these qualities, turning instead toward entitlement, self-centeredness, and superficial fame. This decline isn't just a cultural trend; it’s a crisis threatening the fabric of social cohesion. As Buntyn emphasizes, a society without gentlemen—men who lead by example—becomes fractured, often resulting in increased violence, crime, and a lack of positive role models for our youth. The question is: how did we get here, and what can be done to reverse this trend? Buntyn introduces a powerful analogy to explain how the noble qualities of being a gentleman have been gradually eroded: the boiling frog. If a frog is suddenly thrown into boiling water, it jumps out immediately; but if you heat the water slowly, it boils to death unnoticed. This metaphor vividly captures how societal changes—gradual and subtle—have slowly chipped away at these virtues. Decades ago, men were trained in morals, manners, and respect, but over time, these standards have been ‘boiled out’ of men’s behaviors. Recognizing this slowly happening is crucial to understanding why reintroducing and reinforcing these qualities is not optional but necessary. Fortunately, Buntyn points out that efforts are underway to rebuild what has been lost. The Society of Ordinary Gentlemen exemplifies a movement dedicated to training men to embody qualities like honor, discipline, and respectful conduct. This society encourages men to see being a gentleman as a lifelong commitment—one that involves daily actions and choices. The Society also promotes the development of young men through initiatives like the Junior Society of Ordinary Gentlemen, aiming to instill foundational virtues before they enter adulthood. Such programs focus on practical skills—how to dress, communicate, handle confrontations, and work ethically—creating role models for future generations.