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May 12th LIVE Call: Member Spotlight Night is Back! 🎉
We're doing it again — and if you were on the last one, you already know why this is one of our favorite types of calls. Meet Your Guest Speakers: - Style: @Raymond Reeves - Fragrance: @Michael LoCascio Sr - Watches: @Scott Critchfield These members are stepping up to share what their journey actually looks like — the wins, the missteps, the gear they regret buying, and the lessons that finally clicked. It's the kind of unfiltered conversation you just don't get from a polished presentation. Come hang, ask questions, and be part of the conversation. 👊 Join the call here: https://www.skool.com/rmrs/calendar?eid=13382b0e9b9643419ea87661b6331619 See you there! 🙌
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This Stops Being About Clothes
There's a shift that happens for some men. They stop asking "does this look okay?" and start knowing. Not because they memorized rules — but because they've built a standard for themselves. A quiet confidence that doesn't need to announce itself. You see it in how they walk into a room. In how people respond to them before they say a word. In how much mental energy they have left for things that actually matter. That's not style. That's identity. And identity isn't bought — it's built, through consistent habits and deliberate choices made over time. That's what RMRS Premium is designed for. Not trends. Not outfit grids. A structured path to becoming the man who looks sharp because of who he is — not what he's wearing. If that shift sounds like something you want, the door's open: https://www.skool.com/rmrs/plans
This Stops Being About Clothes
5/9/2026 Home From Shopping
A quick photo after unloading the groceries. Blue, pink and white plaid shirt, navy waisrcoat with a blue pattern, grey trousers, black derbies, grey pork pie and a black cravat with red paisleys. Part of today’s inspiration on the outfit was Ash Jones latest Chap’s Guide video https://youtu.be/lRQ1aydPH20?si=ysy4V04DT3Qb0gVM
5/9/2026 Home From Shopping
Reading is more than fundamental
Part of my New Year’s resolution was to increase my learning and knowledge. One of my biggest hurdles for me was to get back into reading. I was never an avid reader; truth be known, I read only when necessary meaning school. But now I see the need to read to not just to read, but to learn and grow in knowledge. I read some stats the other days, 5% of millionaires read at least two books a month, while 25% of the population didn’t read a single book all last year. The gap between where you are and where you want to be is often just a few hundred pages away. I learned that is a simple formula; the three steps, a psychological blueprint, to read an entire book every single week. This challenge is about making growth inevitable not just a spare time activity. The challenge starts with trick number one: implementation, intention most people buy books and say I’ll read this later but later never comes. Stop wishing and start scheduling; physically write down the exact time and place you will read, treat it like a doctor’s appointment or a job interview. You wouldn’t skip those so don’t skip your growth. Your growth is a scheduled appointment not something you do when you’re bored for example, I will read in my favorite armchair at 7 AM while having coffee. Be specific so your brain has no excuse excuses. Trick two: taking a 200 page book looks intimidating like a mountain you can’t climb, but let’s look at like a map. It only takes about five hours of total focus to finish a standard book that’s just 45 minutes a day that’s it. break it down into chapters or even 10 page segments,so your brain sees an easy win instead of an impossible task. Success is built on small chunks. Finally use the temptation reward: This is how you make reading feel like a reward rather than a chore. Tell yourself for every chapter I finish I get 15 minutes of my favorite show. You’re anchoring the discipline to a high-level pleasure. Suddenly, your brain associates the focus of reading with the dopamine of your reward. It becomes a habit you actually look forward to.
OOTD-CW 9 May 2026
Getting ready for another baseball game. Actually, two. One with my 13-year old and one watching the Dodgers. Sounds like a good day to me!
OOTD-CW 9 May 2026
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