Can we stop with the weak victimhood mentality? So many people out here have anchored their identity in victimhood so hard that they forgot they ever had dreams to begin with. Who had it the hardest. Who's more hurt. Who's more "traumatized." Revisiting wounds. Repeating stories. Rehearsing pain over and over. Everyone's in a competition for who gets to wear the crown of pain. Who really cares? What are you doing now? Pain isn't status. It's the price of admission. You aren't supposed to "process" it and wallow in it forever. You aren't supposed to hide in the shadow of hardship to avoid the real work. Harness it. Aim it. Use it. Step up and create the ultimate version of yourself. Winners don't stay victims. They turn that which broke them into the weapon that builds them. There is zero nobility in wallowing in your sad story. The only nobility in your sad story is overcoming it and showing others they can do the same. ~ Andy Frisella

Good afternoon gentlemen, Many of you are looking level up your style and outfit. You might have only one or two blazers or sports coats, or a couple of suits. And this is fine, because you can use accessorize by one easy and inexpensive way. By simply placing a pocket square in your jacket, you will level up you look by over 50 percent. Seriously, by adding this one piece of accessory to you look will change your appearance and not cost a fortune. And you know what, you might only have one or two jackets but with pocket squares you have given yourself more options. I found a bundle on Amazon pictured below and with these I have enough colors, patterns to go with practically every shirt and tie I have. Therefore, I have more combinations and this bundle was under $30.00. Gentlemen, you can take this small step to upgrade your style at an affordable price. Now I. Will say this the one that I got were not really big but I found these pocket square holders that are excellent to hold your pocket squares in place. The leather one with the spring opening is my go to but I still have the plastic one that came in like a set of 4 or 5. So gentlemen, lets be square in our style and take it to the next level.

Hello gentlemen, I just want to thank everyone for your support. I have not been as engaged here recently as I am dealing with a difficult situation at the moment but seeing that level 8 sure did lift me up. Everyone in this community is awesome!