Mar '23 (edited) • 💬 General discussion
What PUA's get wrong...
I'm one of the networking coaches for MOA and I've been able to create an incredible life in the 2 short years I've been a part of the program. The change I've been able to make sometimes doesn't feel real. Check out my IG here: https://www.instagram.com/anthonypdirico/
I found Michael and came in to MOA as a former frustrated PUA. I was tired of going from bootcamp to bootcamp and learning a weekend full of techniques all to come back to the same life as the same guy...I knew there was a better way.
Pick up has convinced a lot us that we can learn and apply a few techniques, a few conversation tactics and a few "manipulations" to secure the woman of our dreams. But in reality, they were just bandaids to a much bigger problem.
Fortunately and unfortunately, the problem is YOU. Success doesn't show up randomly. It's directly related to who YOU ARE and who YOU BECOME as opposed to YOUR WORDS and TECHNIQUES. It's the ACTIONS you take that define you and the success you ultimately have.
I joined MOA solely to fix the dating part of my life when in fact it's way more than that. MOA is about becoming a better man and through the process of becoming a better man, attracting a better life and better people into that life. It's about working on all the areas that indirectly affect all the others. Leadership, public speaking, reading books, fitness/fashion, logistics, career/job and your social circle all are integral pieces of a successful dating life.
I was ignorant in that I didn't know I needed to work on a lot of these other areas. I thought if I could just focus on one area, I would be set and I could move on into the rainbows and sunshines of the good life. I was wrong. You attract a partner into your life by the value you provide as a man. And you get paid to the level of the problem(s) you solve for others.
Being a part of a tribe of men like MOA forces you to level up. It forces you to look at the dark spots of your life and improve them. Your REAL mentors and friends will tell you the truth without all the bullshit. They'll prescribe solutions to your problems as opposed to treatments that cover up your symptoms temporarily.
Become a valuable man by adding value to the people around you. You're only as strong as your weakest link. Leave your ego at the door and understand there are always areas to improve. Some you need to prioritize over others at different stages of your journey. But you don't need to walk the path on your own.
Here's to your next level. Cheers!
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What PUA's get wrong...
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