February 2026 Social Circle Game Report IV: Pole Dance Mansion Party & Japanese News Interviewed Me

23 February - 1 Match 2026

Last night I went to an 'exotic night' pole dance party at a mansion with my wife, hosted by the same pole dance instructor mentioned in a previous SCG report. There were 9 girls all dressed up to showcase their dancing. While my wife only took one class so far, she came dressed for the occasion and ended up buying a leopard print pole dance outfit from the hostess. Filmed much of the event and tagged some of the dancers on Instagram on my story. It was a lot of fun. But at the same time, there's a really insightful lesson here about femininity and masculinity.

I imagine that if most guys tried taking their girlfriend to an event like this, guys would struggle explaining the purpose of it. I came to understand, thanks to the speeches the hostesses gave, such a thing is great for relationships. Nerds and suckers go to OnlyFans EVEN IF THEY ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP because they are not getting this seductive experience from their girlfriends or wives. Their girlfriends/wives probably aren't dressing sexy for them, or giving them such a confident and glowing experience. So of course they go to OnlyFans, strip clubs, etc. Whereas I went along with my wife, she got all dressed up for it, and she genuinely enjoyed it and understood that these are great things to keep romance alive... While other people in relationships let their sex lives run dry due to being too vanilla, boring and uninspired. Pole dance, and fashion, is a demonstration of desire. Something many men lack experiencing even when they are in relationships. A very interesting lesson I have always had a sense of for years, but now my understanding of it is much clearer.

The hostess is a mother of 2 and inherited the mansion from her father (Her husband told me that part when I was asking about the place). Another confirmation that your girlfriends SHOULD learn pole dancing or experience something like this, because it sure puts them in a horny and fun mood, and you can learn to frame it as enhancing desire in your relationship. Women SHOULD dress sexy for you and radiate sexual confidence. I wonder how many relationships could have been saved if people understood this.

Of course, got plenty of photos and videos. There was one male dancer, and he just so happened to be nearby afterward when I was talking to someone. Turns out that he is Japanese and from Yokohama; I went almost 2 years ago. He was with his aunt or mom or something. The girls that were there were also super friendly and fun to talk to, and it became clear that it's a family business. Everything is yet again pointing to my theory on the 3 stages of game.

Earlier that day, went to a waffle party at a restaurant. They had face painting for the girls, which super coincidentally just happened to be glow in the dark. Perfect when the mansion party later that night had colored lights to make it glow. I noticed a woman prancing up and down the restaurant as if she owned it. So I asked if it's her restaurant, and she said she's behind the marketing. I was literally the only male specimen in the entire place for about 2 hours. Then when it got busy, there was one other guy. And about 30 women. Crazy ratios in many places in Lima.

I went to watch women race like horses. I didn't even know what it was and knew it was gonna be weird, so I figured I should go in case there's something interesting. There were swarms of thousands of nerds. The worst ratio I have ever seen in my life for this 'Uma Musume' thing. Or as I call it... Whoresracing. Or Maidrunner. Basically... Girls dress as Japanese maids or some shit, put tails on their lower back (Yeah, I was hoping the tails would be buttplugs, but that's just wishful and impractical for running, but hey, that might make them run faster) and run on a racetrack for horses. I don't know where the fuck people get this shit from, but it was super busy and popular. Anyway, with the ratio being the worst I have ever seen, it was just a cesspool of stinky nerds who were afraid to even talk to women other than asking them for photos. Game on easy mode. Despite the low number of women there, there were some stunners who were by themselves. It was just so easy using observational openers like 'where did you buy that skirt chain?' or something else about their outfit. There was one, for example, in a white dress looking for a seat. She had a gold-colored skirt chain. Easiest opener of all time. Another girl was wearing a pink (Fake) corset and a skirt chain. I'm like... Why the fuck are all these women wearing this thing today? Got some photos and videos of the event in general, then left early to beat the chaos. Fortunately, I was right. There was a bit of a riot reported on social media near the end of the event because it had so many people (It was free, after all). Struck a few quick conversations with girls inside the venue and on the way out overall.

Reached 21,000 followers on Instagram. That's 225 new followers in 7 days. I have way more followers than the vast majority of girls I meet who are dancers, models, pole dance instructors, etc. I'm very much the big dog in every room I go into now. It carries so much power when people find out.

Went to a party at the Museo De Arte De Lima with my wife and daughter. Arrived late, took some photos on the stairs, grabbed a burger from the vendor outside that just so happens to be my favorite burger place in Peru. Asked if the owner was there, and a worker told me just to send a message on Instagram. Haven't had the time yet. By the time we ate, the party was almost finished. So we went home. I just wanted the burgers and photos anyway. ; )

I was interviewed by Nikkei, one of the biggest newspapers in Japan. The journalist is Japanese, and she asked me all about Message Game AI. The newspaper is said to be like the equivalent of The Wall Street Journal. The story will be released in Japanese, about a month from now. Exciting. Maybe I'll get lots of sign ups from Japan in the future... Maybe I'll be big in Japan... Maybe I'm turning Japanese... Anyway, connected with the journalist long term at the end of it. One of the most pleasurable encounters with a journalist, especially given my history with them over the years... What I found ABSOLUTELY FASCINATING was that she asked me if 'like in Japan, men are advised to lead the women'. Based on what she was saying, it seems that the Japanese started understanding even at a journalistic level that men should be leading and trying to meet women. I cried tears of joy (In my imagination) at the truth finally being spoken by a female journalist reporting on men meeting women for dating, and expressing it as something that isn't just good, but necessary.

Had a YouTube meeting.

Had a call with Owen Cook.

Got invited to a talk with the cofounder of YouTube.

Had a meeting with Mystery's team.

Joined a Playing With Fire live stream.

Hosted an episode of the Dating Coach Panel with Markus Wolf, JT Tran, Jordan Knope, Joe Ducard, Devin Giamou and Brian Marckesano. One of the most interesting panel episodes I have hosted. So much INTELLIGENCE and PRACTICAL KNOWLEDGE in one episode. Only hours before going live, I figured I should make the episode focused on practical things and optimization, and so that's exactly what I did.

Oh, and one more thing... If you see that trailer for the Inside The Manosphere documentary on Netflix... I'm the one who introduced Louis Theroux and the documentary team with Justin Waller and Myron Gaines. ; )

So, yes. An eventful week.

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