Hey guys. Quick question. Michael talks about posting stories and using the views as an indicator of which girls are interested in you i.e. If you post 10 stories you can see which girls watched all 10 and that is a good indicator of interest. I have two questions off the back of that 1) Is 10 the minimum we should be posting to get that indication? 2) Can stories still be utilised this way because sometimes girls are just bored and clicking through stories to get onto the next set of stories on auto-pilot (or is that just my thinking?) I do not want to sound pessimistic or that i doubt what he is saying, I just want to make sure this still stands true as it did the time he recorded that lesson- with all the changes on instagram i just want to make sure i am doing things the right way. Thanks guys

Hey MoA team, I want to share a helpful hint with you all - don't pay for anyone to "boost" or "promote" your content on their IG page. 1) because that benefit to the IG algorithm went out years ago. 2) they say have xxK followers - big f***ing deal. How old is their IG? How many of those are actually active and interacting with their page daily? Are they doing reposts? Almost always they're not doing jacksh*t that will really help you. 3) They aren't hosting or curating "status"IG events or passing you an invitation to a high "status" event - no value on today's IG and no value to you at all! 4) what is valuable with today's IG - a repost of your reel. Get a friend on IG to do more than like 👍 they must REPOST for max value! There's more algorithm value if repost by a person who is not a follower of your IG. Likes have practically no value on IG BUT a repost does. So save your money, get your friends or even your team here to repost your reels & stories not your posts to really get traction on your IG. Any questions please let me know with a DM and here too for everyone to see and learn together

Alright I’m going to need some advice and some help brainstorming some questions to ask and openers for doing cold approaches at the beach to build a social circle. I need a pattern interior questions that raises or atleast does not lower my status. I need 2-3 non invasive questions to ask girls about themselves to get them talking about themselves And 1-2 questions that really get them talking but then can Segway into me being ready to leave but here’s my IG. *no “excuse me how’s your day” bs or anything displaying any kind of intent for anything other than a conversation. **no cheesy lame “pickup” lines Really counting on you guys to help me get on the right track I have zero cold approach experience but I have put up over $1M in high ticket sales so I’m not shy of rejection or talking (I get paid to talk all day)… TLDR: I need a NEPQ based script for beach cold approaches.

So I have some pretty major updates since I last posted. And this is probably a pretty good case study that proves so much of what @Michael Sartain says is 100% right. To save you time looking back, when I joined here in October 2025 I was seperated but still living with my soon to be ex-wife. The breakup started when she said she 'loves me, but isn't in love with me, the relationship is over and we are done' in October 2024. This was after 10 years together plus 18 months married, so yeah, after 10 years to get to know each other well enough to decide if we wanted to be married, we got married and 18 months later she changed her mind... So that was shit. We have 3 kids between us ( all from our first marriages, 2 mine, 1 hers) and had a stable family environment for them for over a decade. My reasons for joining were partly to start learning new skills should I find myself back in the dating pool, but mostly to use those same skills to re-attract my wife. Long story short, I moved out 8 weeks ago and have been dating with some good success already (including pulling a 26 year old Swedish airline hostess - at 52 she is literally half my age). I moved out after some absolutely crazy behaviour from my wife in 2026 including physical abuse from her on me. After moving out I was 100% certain I would never go back, hence starting dating again. Then to add to the fun, this weekend I found out that from 6 months into us being married - a year before my wife decided to mention that there was a problem and that she wasn't in love with me anymore - she had been having an affair.. bare minimum emotional, but lots of reasons to think physical too which will now have been going on for 3 years. She 'forgot' to mention this at any point while blaming me for everything during the seperation. I now have a ton of evidence provided by the other guys wife, and its clear that while she was enjoying the 'comfort' of home life with me and was torn over what she was doing, 'attraction' was built elsewhere with him.

Anyone else notice that more guys under 40 are getting ED prescriptions from therapists? Hot take: ED isn’t just physical anymore. It’s what happens when you’re overstimulated all the time, not getting real experience, overthinking everything, and your lifestyle is working against you. It’s that the way we’re living now is messing with how we’re wired to function. It hit me hardest when I wasn’t leading in my past relationships and was still thinking that roles didn’t matter. My big mistake.