Cooperation Paradigm · Men of Action Forum

Cooperation Paradigm

"When people feel like they matter and belong, cooperation will be strong." - Janine Driver

As I am messaging models to attend photoshoots I have been taking into account what I learned from the book "start with why" and using that as part of making an offer so good you'd feel stupid to say no.

I am learning photography because I want to get good at it and have a network of models to do photoshoots at the dog beach in Huntington Beach so animal rescues can have elite level pictures and videos to showcase the dogs in hopes of helping them find the best homes. Because I believe a life without service to others is no life worth living after all. I like sleeping well at night.

This is the truth and this is what I tell girls I am talking to about shoots.

I noticed how my IG is OK at best, I am telling these girls that I have next to zero experience, but because of my why they feel like by being one of my "partners in crime" would mean they matter and belong to a cause that strikes a cord in their hearts. It makes them feel virtuous as opposed to feeling objectified by the creepy photographers that want to pay them to do nude shoots.

My super power along with not being a drunk is not being a thirsty dude with only sex on my mind, I have real substantial goals in life.

By stating my why, and because my why has a place for them to be meaningful to something that they care about I provide them with something money can't buy. Everyone wants to sleep at night knowing they are a good person, that they belong and have value in this world.

My main take away from MOA is crafting a lifestyle that has purpose and meaning as well as being a good leader who makes people feel like they belong so that cooperation will be strong because when cooperation is strong ALL the women tag along. Then taking that lifestyle and conveying it through social media to leverage your life without having to sell people your life story.

The book list has been great, but I wish I started taking action on my IG a long time ago. Waiting until everything is perfect to start was completely unnecessary.

I didn't need to get my finances on point to get the hottest girls I've met to want to be my friends and invite themselves to hang out with me, I just needed to start with why.

What is necessary for anyone that wants to be a good leader of men and good communicator with women is to watch the full video on the cooperation paradigm by ATF hostage negotiator Janine Driver.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nlOtMn15UJQ

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