Strength in Numbers: Your Support Network Matters Even More During the Holidays
As much as we all love the holiday season, it really can be a mixed bag. There’s joy… but there’s also pressure. There are celebrations… but sometimes there’s loneliness. There’s excitement… and then there’s the stress, the noise, the juggling, and the 'I just need five minutes to myself' feeling. And honestly, this is when our resilience gets tested the most. It’s also when our support networks matter more than ever. Over the years, I’ve learned that resilience isn’t something we magically build by ourselves. It comes from the people who show up, check in, and make life feel a little lighter. The ones who remind us we don’t have to carry everything alone. Even now, living with MND, my support network is one of the biggest reasons I can keep doing what I love. The people in my corner keep me grounded, calm and hopeful, especially when life gets noisy or overwhelming… which the holidays often are. So as we get closer to the end of the year, I want to encourage you to take a moment and think about your own support network. Not in a formal way. Just a simple check-in with yourself: Who helps you feel safe? Who lifts your energy? Who actually listens? Who do you feel like 'you' around? And just as important…Who do you support? Where do you show up for others? Where could you offer a bit more kindness or connection? The holidays are a great time to strengthen these bonds. It doesn’t need to be anything big... it could be a quick message, a coffee catch-up, a walk, a thank-you, or simply saying 'yes' when someone offers help. Strong relationships give us the safety net we need, and that safety net makes resilience so much easier to access. You don’t have to be strong all the time. You just need people who remind you you’re not alone. So this season, aim for connection, not perfection… your resilience will thank you. Who’s one person you’d like to reconnect with or lean on a little more these holidays?