Following on from last weeks Skill builder about Davos and contrasting worldviews here's a taster from a rich discussion. We examined the tension between:
- “Power with” — shared, relational, and regenerative
- “Power over” — power as control, leverage, or threat
We reflected on Power Dynamics with a core question:
When do I default to control rather than collaboration—and what fears or emotional drivers sit underneath that choice?
The discussion surfaced how power shows up across different contexts:
- Personal relationships and family systems
- Academic and professional environments
- Political leadership and global power dynamics
Participants shared candid reflections related to:
- Patience and perspective-taking in moments of conflict
- White male privilege and power dynamics in family and academic settings
- Justice and fairness as triggers for “power over” responses
- Being a young CEO navigating responsibility, authority, and restraint
Practicing “Power With”
This practice reinforced a core insight: Shifting how we use power begins with a practice of self awareness, self-regulation, and relational presence—not authority.
We host Skill builder sessions weekly that explore our attitudes, values and behaviors in relation to our leadership. Check the calendar for the time.