Always Lead With Curiosity, Not a Pitch.
The biggest networking mistake: treating every conversation as transactional. People remember how you made them feel, not what you said about yourself.
The counterintuitive truth: the less you talk about yourself, the more memorable you become. Selling is the outcome of good networking, not the goal of it.
Ask first. Always.
Try these openers:
- "Are you working on anything interesting these days?"
- "What's going on in [their industry] right now?"
- "What's the biggest challenge in your business lately?"
- "What kind of clients are you most excited to work with right now?"
- "Is there anything you're trying to figure out or solve in your business this year?"
- "What's keeping you the busiest right now?"