Sunday Funday šŸ–¤ Small moment… big ripple.
Told my partner my black Metcons were wearing out, so we made a quick stop at the Nike outlet to replace them.
Women’s side? No cute colors.
Men’s side? Found the SAME black pair I bought last year (they run small—size 7 fit a little big but I’m rolling with it).
Then I see my partner trying on the same shoe color as mine.
I’m confused like…
ā€œWhy are you trying Metcons? You know I only use these for HIIT + strength.ā€
He goes:
ā€œWell… you always tell me you need your ammo when you go to the gym.
One shoe for walking, one shoe for lifting.
I want to start training… doing RDLs.
I was hoping you could teach me when you’re at 24 Hour Fitness šŸ˜³ā€
Y’all… I did NOT see that coming.
He even said:
ā€œMy girlfriend is a badass. I’m just following your footsteps.ā€
🄹🄹🄹
That opened up a whole convo about why he wants to lift heavier.
Honestly? His reason is mostly aesthetic — and you know what? That’s OK.
If that’s his ā€œwhyā€ and it gets him under the bar, I’m here for it.
What sparked it was me calling him out (lovingly šŸ˜…):
He takes ~45 min workouts, rests like 30 seconds between sets, and moves on.
I told him straight up:
šŸ‘‰ If you can recover in 10–30 seconds, you probably aren’t pushing hard enough.
šŸ‘‰ On my chest press days, I take the FULL 3 minutes before sets 2 & 3 because I’m lifting HEAVY.
Moral of the story:
It took me by surprise, but it felt REALLY good knowing my partner trusts my process enough to let me lead him.
Especially knowing he’s Mexican and carries a lot of pride — I never expected him to ask.
But here we are.
Quiet wins.
Lead by example.
Energy ripples.
And sometimes… it starts with shoes. šŸ–¤šŸ‘Ÿ
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