What’s Really Holding You Back From Living
It’s raining in Sydney today 🌧️☔️ so I’ve been doing some reading and research. I came across this bit by Chris Williamson and found it quite fascinating. It’s a long one ⏳so if you’ve got the time to indulge me, I’d appreciate your thoughts. If you don’t have the time, I hope you all have a lovely day. “Thus conscience does make cowards of us all.” The line comes from Hamlet, and it’s usually misheard as an insult. As if Shakespeare is sneering at morality – like ethics soften us, or thought drains courage from the body. That’s not what’s happening; Shakespeare isn’t attacking goodness, he’s pointing at self-awareness and naming its cost. In the “To be, or not to be” soliloquy, Hamlet isn’t really weighing life versus death. He’s circling a more practical question: why do humans hesitate to act even when action would clearly relieve suffering? Why do we endure situations we don’t want and why do we tolerate lives that we could in theory change? Why do we not work to live in the area we want to live in? Why do we not go the extra mile and fight for that job we want? Well… Pain isn’t the only obstacle, imagination is. By “conscience,” Shakespeare means something closer to consciousness. The ability to think ahead, judge ourselves and simulate futures before they arrive. To see consequences coming and experience them emotionally in advance. Unfortunately, that ability cuts both ways. The very capacity that makes us reflective, ethical, and intelligent also makes us hesitant. We imagine worst-case futures so vividly that we treat them as already real. So courage isn’t defeated by fear. It’s defeated by simulation. We rehearse embarrassment, loss, rejection, and moral failure in advance, and the body responds as if those things have already happened. Heart rate rises. Muscles tighten. Avoidance feels sensible. Inaction feels like safety. Hamlet describes what follows: thought “puzzles the will.” Reflection drains us. Not because thinking is bad, but because it multiplies potential outcomes faster than our actions can deal with them.