I saw a post in one of ’s communities the other day, and it stopped me in my tracks. It asked a simple question…
If your community were a person, who would they be?
And I couldn’t stop thinking about it.
Because when I sat with that question, really sat with it, I realised something.
If I were to encapsulate the essence of this space…
If I were to give it a body, a voice, a presence…
This is where I landed.
Meet Serafina.
Serafina is the quiet flame.
Not the fire that burns everything down.
The one that stays lit when things get tender, uncertain, messy.
She is calm without being passive.
Soft without being weak.
Grounded without being rigid.
She doesn’t rush you.
She doesn’t fix you.
She doesn’t need you to perform your healing or have the right words.
Her presence alone says,
You’re safe to be here exactly as you are.
Serafina has lived.
She’s known what it is to over-carry, to shrink, to doubt her own knowing.
She’s learned, gently, sometimes painfully, that strength doesn’t come from forcing or proving…
It comes from listening.
From self-trust.
From boundaries that feel like love, not walls.
She believes healing doesn’t have to be loud to be powerful.
That growth doesn’t have to hurt to be real.
That rest is not something you earn, it’s something you honour.
She doesn’t lead from a pedestal.
She sits beside you.
She holds the space, lights the doorway, and lets you choose when you’re ready to step through.
And here’s the thing…
Serafina isn’t separate from this space.
She is this space.
She is the energy of the Empowered Spirit Tribe.
The slowing down.
The honesty.
The permission.
The quiet remembering of who you were before the noise.
And in many ways…
We are Serafina.
So I’m curious…
✨ What parts of Serafina do you recognise in yourself?
✨ What about her resonates, even just a little?
I’d love to hear.