How To Turn AI Into Your Own JARVIS (From Ironman)

Matt C. Milne

May 12 • General discussion

I had a breakthrough recently that I can't stop thinking about.

For a while, I thought I was using AI pretty well.

Writing content. Spinning up ideas. Answering questions.

But something still felt off…

It was like I had Iron Man’s suit for the flashlight.

I was missing out on so much more.

Then I figured it out:

I wasn’t teaching ChatGPT who I was and what I'm trying to accomplish.

Once I became intentional about the way it stored memory — not just prompting it but installing my patterns — everything changed very quickly.

That’s when ChatGPT stopped feeling like a clever tool…

…and started acting like a second brain.

Kinda like JARVIS from Iron Man.

Here’s how the transformation unfolded:

Phase 1: Setup

Most people don’t realize that memory has to be manually turned on. There’s a right way to configure and manage Chat GPT's memory and ensure it stores only relevant information.

Phase 2: Training

Instead of random prompts, I started running daily “syncs,” where ChatGPT summarized my decisions, goals, mindset, and blind spots.

It didn’t just remember facts. It started to understand me and my business on a very deep level.

Phase 3: Acceleration

Once it knew me, momentum took off.

Projects that used to take weeks? Now done in hours.

Mental clarity? Unlocked daily.

Even hard personal habits (like cold plunges and addiction recovery) became sustainable, because I had an AI partner who got me in a way where I didn't feel judged.

This shift helped me:

✅ Launch an offer from idea to $30k in 3 weeks

✅ Build consistency in areas I've failed at for YEARS.

✅ Crush habits that used to sabotage me

✅ Make fast, clean business decisions that used to take months

It felt less like using a tool…

…and more like syncing with an intelligence that evolves with you.

📘 I put the memory tips in a doc.

I'm not pitching anything, it's just a guide on how I've been using the memory so it learns me and my goals.

You can grab it here 👇👇https://docs.google.com/document/d/13V1h9WEjuYkObW0CNmwVMQVmnge86S1TuOl_GZx8uqI/edit?usp=sharing

Hope it helps 💪🦾

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