I've been thinking about something lately and wanted to throw it out here. Most of us aren't failing with women because we lack game. We're failing because we barely play. We wait for the perfect moment, the perfect line, the perfect version of ourselves that never quite shows up. And meanwhile nothing happens. So here's something worth trying. For 100 days straight, you approach one woman you're genuinely attracted to. Not the easy one. The one that makes you a little nervous. Every single day. The goal isn't to get numbers. The goal is to kill the fear. Because until you've been rejected enough times to realize it doesn't actually hurt you, that fear is quietly running your decisions in ways you don't even notice. Here's what I have experienced tends to happen when guys actually commit to this. .....the first couple weeks are uncomfortable. Around week three or four something starts to shift. The approach stops feeling like a verdict and starts feeling like just a conversation. Some go well. Most don't. And slowly you stop treating the ones that don't as proof of something. By the end you're not a different person. You're just more available. Less in your head. And women pick up on that faster than almost anything else you could work on. A few things that make this work better: Approach within five seconds of seeing her... use the 5,4,3,2,1 method by Mel Robbins (book... I love that book by the way). The longer you wait the louder the voice gets. Don't have an agenda going in. Genuine curiosity about a person lands differently than a pickup attempt and she'll feel the difference immediately. Keep a simple log. Date, situation, what you said, how it went. You'll start seeing your own patterns within a month. Anyone here done something like this? What actually moved the needle for you?

You know what I've noticed after being in this game a long time... There's always two types of guys in any social scene... The guy who shows up... and the guy who actually organized the whole night... made the calls... got the venue... put the right people in the same room... And here's the thing nobody wants to say out loud... the woman standing there already knows which one is which before either of them says a single word... It's not about looks... it's not about your opener... it's not even about your social skills honestly... ...It's about who made this night happen... and most guys are spending their whole lives on the wrong side of that equation without even realizing it exists... The main promoter... the mover and shaker... the guy who connected everyone in that room... he already won before the night even started... that's just the reality of it... How many of you have even seriously thought about becoming that guy...

I am curious what kind of dating advice do you guys consume or have consumed in the past? I am still listening / re-reading the following: - Models by Mark Manson - David Tian - Mating Grounds podcast There are tons of resources out there, but few are worth listening to.

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