Five Insights From My Clubs Coaching Call
Today we stepped into communication especially as we head into the festive season. Here is what I was reminded of by my group when it comes to communication 1. Go in with a purpose. Before any important conversation, know why you’re going in and what you hope to walk out with. A little clarity goes a long way. 2. Everyone wants to be heard. Slow down, listen, and reflect back what you’re hearing. It settles the nervous system and invites connection instead of defence. 3. You’re probably on the same page. Especially with the people closest to you. Most of the time, both sides want the same thing. Misunderstandings cause more chaos than intention ever does. 4. Know the doshas in communication. Vata, Pitta, Kapha each spiral differently (and each come back to balance differently). When you know your pattern (and theirs), you can respond instead of react. 5. Regulate, regulate, regulate. Your nervous system sets the tone. A calm vagus nerve is often a great and overlook place to start. Happy holidays and happy clear and healthy communication this season! x