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Brojo: Confidence & Integrity

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🔥 January 30-Day Integrity Year Planning Challenge
This is not a New Year’s resolution challenge; it's a decision-making and identity challenge designed to set up your entire year (and beyond). 🎯 The Core Idea - Stop chasing outcomes (money, abs, status, approval). - Define a North Star: the person you want to be. - Use that identity to make simple, binary decisions every day: - Integrity = behavior that consistently matches your values. 🧭 What We’re Building This Month By the end of January, you’ll have: - A clear identity-based North Star - A practical plan covering how you'll improve the 5 areas of life: Health, Career, Social, Psychology, and Mission - A decision-making framework you can use daily - A plan you can always get back on track with (no perfection required) ⚠️ Important Expectation - This challenge requires radical honesty - No trying to look impressive, no fluff, no promises - If you bullshit, you miss the point 🧠 Week 1 Focus: Identity & Clarity - Define who you know you should be - Identify your core values (e.g. courage, honesty, responsibility, integrity) - Look honestly at your past behaviour and identify gaps—especially during the last year - Create a first draft of your North Star - VIP workshop on January 5 for support from me on your plan 📝 First Task (Do This Now) Comment below with a first draft identity description: - Core values & principles you want to live by - Internal experience: how it feels to be that person - External behavior: what others would observe you doing consistently e.g. "I am honest, brave, and responsible. This makes me feel light, free and respected. From the outside, I'm someone who speaks his mind, does the hard work, and owns his decisions". ⚠️ Write it in the present tense ❌ No clichés ❌ No vague “trying to be” language ✅ Describe who this person is as if it is already true This is a draft — you’ll refine it throughout the month. Don't spend more than 10mins on this!
🔥 January 30-Day Integrity Year Planning Challenge
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- Honesty without fear or rejection. Showing up without the need to impress. Letting people feel and share emotions without needing to fix. - I am brave, confident, caring. This makes me feel empowered, enough as I am and kind. - Not talking about what I’m going to do but just doing it for myself. Listening without offering advice or trying to fix.
Welcome! Please read this first!
Welcome everyone to the Brojo Integrity Army community! Thank you all so much for joining. NEXT STEPS: 1) Please write a post introducing yourself - where you're from, what you're working on, and anything else you want people to know about you. 2) Have a look at the Nice Guy Recovery & Social Confidence course in the Classroom tab. 3) Check out the Membership Upgrade options to unlock the most valuable courses and coaching support. 4) Test out the Virtual Dan Coaching App to get specific support and guidance on your unique goals and issues (you'll be amazed at how much it sounds like Dan). ------ Some group rules to keep in mind: - No solicitation without my approval - do not offer your services or products as posts or private comments to other members - if someone does this, let me know immediately. This will result in a permanent ban. - Keep it respectful and try to help each other out. Disagreement is fine, abuse is not. - This page is exclusively about self-development, so discussions on unrelated topics (e.g. politics) will get deleted. - If anything in this group bothers you for whatever reason, please personally message me and I'll try to sort it out Thanks, and enjoy the community!! Dan
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Hello, I’m looking forward to a better understanding of myself and the many ways I relate to being a nice guy. I’m 42 and have known this about myself for some time but struggled with understanding it. I recently stumbled upon this, it resonated with me and I’m ready for change.
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