Section 2 of my Snapshot just called out something I never connected before. The same reason I stayed in bad relationships in college is the same reason I can't stop impulse buying on Amazon. Different behavior, same pattern underneath. Turns out it was never about willpower. It's a nervous system thing.

Just wondering how old people were when they discovered they had ADHD. I am 58 and I have found out more about myself and why I feel the way I do which is an eye opener. I think my dad may also have ADHD and he is 87. I don’t know if it’s something that he would be interested in but he does have some of the “traits” I just wondered if there are people older than 87 who have just discovered themselves.

Hi, my name is Lola. I’m living in Vermont, hale from Kentucky, and am in the process of transplanting to Tennessee soon. I’m a content creator, artist, and someone trying to build a business while also managing real life, real stress, and a very ADHD/(possibly Autistic) brain. I have a diagnosis of ADHD, experience in trauma recovery, caregiving, creativity, overwhelm, and starting over more times than I ever planned to. You can ask me questions about: customer service and content creation cake decorating and catering journaling and healing caregiving and stress rebuilding life after hard things figuring out how to work with your brain instead of constantly fighting it I want to get these things from ADHD Harmony: better focus better follow-through practical strategies I can actually stick with support from people who get it more structure, more peace, and less frustration For fun, I like to: write make things learn weirdly deep things listen to music chase meaningful ideas and follow the occasional mental side quest learning AI Something meaningful to me is the Phoenix, because that pretty much sums me up.

For you Jim! Thank you for this opportunity!