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9 contributions to Dating With Clarity
Happy Birthday Shelly! 🎂🎉🎁
I have a story I like to share with all of you. Around this time last year, I was going through a healing of toxic friendships that were in my life and was just trying to heal from that and my dating life was put on pause. But then one day while I was scrolling through my IG I saw Shelley’s Ad and I thought she seems cool to talk to about my dating life so we had an introduction session and we spoke for a long time and she gave me a sense of safety that I could open up about my past dating life without feeling embarrassed. Ever since then I have supported her and follow her dating tips on IG. One thing I did throughout last year, every week when she had a live on IG about answering dating questions I would always submit my dating questions and out of the maybe hundreds of followers that she had that maybe also submitted a dating question for a good period of time, my dating question would always get picked to be answer! (Yes, I did always notice you doing that Shelley and I appreciate it) And then one day out of the blue, she asks me to join this new community chat she thought I be perfect for and I did and here we are! Shelley, you are the reason we are all here able to be part of this amazing support dating community and for that I will always truly be grateful for. You’re also a very lovely, kind, beautiful, funny, genuine and the real definition of the word AUTHENTIC! We are all here because of you and I thank you for supporting men in their dating lives and for making a difference in making them happy to be with their special someone. Thank you personally for supporting me in my dating live in the way you have for this past year and for your kindness and positivity. I just wanted to say to you Happy Birthday @Shelley Badayos! You deserve all the happiness in the world and I hope you have an Amazing day with you family and friends and that you’re treated to a very nice dinner tonight because you deserve that and so much more! You mean so much to your clients, to everyone in this chat and especially to me for giving me hope in my dating life too. Happy Birthday Shelley and always remember…you are the light at the end of your tunnel! P.S. Smile Today! 🎂 🎆 🎇 🎊 🎁 🎉🥳😃
Happy Birthday Shelly! 🎂🎉🎁
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Happy birthday Shelley!
WIN WEDNESDAY!!
Time to share some of you wins down below!!!
WIN WEDNESDAY!!
2 likes • 19d
I have my fifth date with a very nice girl this upcoming Saturday. We also talked via telephone tonight (Wednesday) and will have another call tomorrow (Thursday) night.
Q&A Tuesday!
Time to answer some of your dating q's! Comment them down below 👇
Q&A Tuesday!
1 like • 28d
How does a 62 year old man know when it is appropriate to try and hold hands and/off kiss a 58 year old woman...when says she "wants to take it slow"? For background, she has been physically abused in her two pervious marriages and is a recovering alcoholic. I'm trying to be respectful of her past and not try hand-holding and/or a kiss too soon...for fear of scaring her off. She has told me that she feels "safe" when with me and has shared very personal information about herself (as I have about myself with her). We've been on three dates...and dates 4 and 5 are scheduled for the next two weekends. We've added a weekly "virtual dinner" (i.e. phone call during dinner time) and text throughout the week.
WIN THURSDAY!
Happy Thursday! Missed Win Wednesday so we are moving it this week to today!! What wins are you celebrating? Comment down below 👇
WIN THURSDAY!
4 likes • Feb 12
I have a 3rd date tomorrow with a wonderful girl. Hopefully, by the end of the 3rd date, she will accept going out with me on a fourth date!
1 like • Feb 14
@Jordan Torres At the end of tonight's third date, she said "yes" to dates #4 (next weekend) and #5 (the following weekend). We also scheduled weekly "virtual dinner dates" (i.e. phone calls during dinner time) for every Wednesday...in order to stay in touch between the weekly in-person dates.
WIN WEDNESDAY!!!
Hello hello everyone. It's that time of the week again. Time to share some wins! Post em down below 👇
WIN WEDNESDAY!!!
1 like • Jan 30
I had a busy week. Had a photo shoot to produce better dating app pictures. Went on a "blind" date...and she said "yes" to a second date. Then went to a local clothing store and made some purchases to upgrade my wardrobe.
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John Hulsebus
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Leader in Information Technology and Business. Passionate about volunteer opportunities that benefits the underprivileged in my local community

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Joined Jan 20, 2026
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