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WELCOME TO DATING WITH CLARITY! (Read Me)
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Apr 5 •
Not sure
Hey guys, Apologies for disappearing and not posting for a bit. So, let's rain check. I've had a couple of dates with a girl I like, and they went super well. In person she's great, slightly introverted but still opens up well. We've had quite a lot of back and forth chatting, chemistry is there. Her chemistry isn't as making fun as mine. But, people are different for a reason. We are currently planning a 3rd date for next Saturday. However, my only concern with this girl is her messaging back is so slow. For example, after Date 1. I messaged saying I had a great time, and she didn't reply. I'd assume she ghosted me. So, I messaged again a few days later. She actually replied, and said she was away that weekend. I left my number on a message back. She actually messaged me. So we organised Date 2. Date 2 she cancelled due to illness last minute. (I had already got there) Fair enough, difference is she actually rescheduled. Date 2 we went for a long walk and talk, had lunch together, and it was a great time. We discussed in Date 2 about future date ideas, and going for a meal for Date 3. I've been trying to organise this over text message as I'm quite keen. I haven't felt attraction like this before in any interaction in my 34 years on this planet. She said she was up for going for a meal as planned, we have the location. She said she would send me her schedule to organise. Well... I waited 3 days and have no message of the schedule. (So I got in my head overthinking that perhaps she's not interested?) I took another shot to check in with her, to ask how her week was going and stuff. She said she was with family this Easter Weekend, and asked me if I still wanted the meal next Saturday? She text me back, it took her about half a day (14 hours). I replied right away to get something locked in. I'm still waiting to hear back. My concern are these things actually: Myself getting too attached too quickly. I'm a big texter and a big communicator. I'm not used to this waiting for replies and stuff for so long. Do I start calling her from next week to check in?
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