Hey guys! Happy Fri-yay 🤭 Most men say they want to work on themselves But what they really mean is “I want dating to stop feeling stressful” So let’s make it simple When you like a woman, 1 of 3 things usually breaks down And THAT’S where you start 1) Your nervous system If your body goes into panic around women you’re into, you’ll sabotage without realizing it 👉🏻Overthinking 👉🏻Overtexting 👉🏻Trying to impress 👉🏻Freezing up 👉🏻Settling for “safe” conversations What to work on: Practice being calm while still showing interest That’s confidence Mini challenge for this week: Next time you feel anxious, do this before you talk to her Slow breath in Slow breath out Drop your shoulders Relax your jaw Then speak Your MAIN GOAL IS TO BE PRESENT 2) Your standards A lot of men chase because they don’t have a clear filter. So any attention feels like “this might be my chance” 👉🏻Then you tolerate mixed signals 👉🏻You over invest early 👉🏻You lose yourself trying to keep her What to work on: Get clear on what you want so you stop choosing from desperation Quick prompt: 👉🏻A woman I choose has… 👉🏻A woman I avoid has… If you can’t name these, you’ll keep repeating the same pattern 3) Your social confidence Confidence isn’t a personality trait. It’s a skill built through reps If you only “practice” when it’s a woman you really like, it will always feel high pressure. So you need low pressure reps. What to work on: 👉🏻Talk to people daily with no agenda 👉🏻Build comfort with eye contact, small talk, and leading a conversation Mini reps 👉🏻Ask someone for a recommendation 👉🏻Compliment someone and keep walking 👉🏻Start a 30 second convo and end it first Your real starting point: Pick the ONE that feels most true for you right now 👉🏻If dating makes you anxious start with nervous system 👉🏻If you keep chasing the wrong women start with standards 👉🏻If you avoid approaching start with social reps Comment 1, 2, or 3 and I’ll tell you exactly what to focus on first based on your answer

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Hey everyone Jordan here and yes today is officially my Birthday and just wanted to say thank you for all of you who are part of this cool community and takes time out of there day to come here and share there life’s experiences with all of us! I’m very happy and proud to be part of a community with people all over the world where we are just men trying to better ourselves at the same time as we are trying to better our romantic lives. Love and romance has always been near and dear to my heart it’s just first understanding to love yourself first before loving someone else that is always important and that’s the path I’ve been trying to be on for the past year. Working on myself so that then whoever I fall for I have something to offer them. My dating goal right now…is to have a date by Valentine’s Day. I am ok being single but on that day February 14th is the one day I do mind being single. I refuse to be single on that day. Because it’s the one day that it’s about love and all I want is to share that special day with someone special. So I will be on a mission to find a date for Valentine’s Day because I want to share that day with someone I could possibly share chemistry with. Will I get a Valentine’s Date by February 14th? Who knows it’s doable but not impossible. Anyways, I’m happy to share my experiences with you all here, happy to have an awesome dating coach like Shelley Badayos to support us all and just lucky to be here. I’m going to go out and celebrate all day today but like Shelley says, continue to support each other and continue to show up here and know that you are not alone. Not anymore. All of yall are great thank you! 🙌🏻

Good morning people! Time to share some wins down below 😊

Crazy how time flies cause we are pass the halfway point of January! You already know what time it is… Weekly Shoutout Time! I want to give a huge shoutout to the two most active members in our community this week (based on the leaderboard): @Chris Hall @Jordan Torres Thank you both for showing up, contributing, and keeping this community alive. You truly make this space better for everyone. Quick reminder as we head into the second half of the month:Whoever finishes January in the #1 spot on the leaderboard will win a FREE 30-minute 1:1 coaching session with me. Keep showing up. Keep participating. Keep supporting each other. It all adds up 🥰 If you have any questions, just message me!