Day 6 — Sleep & our midlife brains...
I feel like we've saved the best (and most underrated) piece for last... Sleep becomes a different animal in perimenopause and menopause. Many women who used to fall asleep easily and stay asleep are now waking at 1–3am, or lying awake in the early hours with a brain that feels switched on. This isn’t because you’ve suddenly become a “bad sleeper.” It’s physiology. Estrogen and progesterone help regulate temperature, sleep depth, and how easily the brain transitions between “rest” and “alert.” When these hormones fluctuate, sleep becomes lighter, more reactive, and easier to interrupt. Small things can wake us now...a temperature shift, a partner breathing, a pet moving, or a passing thought about something we forgot to do. There’s also the stress physiology piece. You don’t have to feel stressed during the day for your nervous system to behave like it’s stressed at night. Elevated cortisol, rumination, planning thoughts, and that “tired-but-wired” feeling are all more common in midlife. Food patterns matter as well. Low protein at dinner, long gaps without eating, heavy alcohol, or very refined carbohydrates at night can all make sleep more fragmented. What is one thing you can keep doing consistently that will carry you into next week? Check out the Classroom for suggestions :)