Chicken & Egg situation..
Heck even with the pre transformation course got me thinking. I have this clarity that I want to help other people, make an impact through their lives through coaching. But since I just started to acquire the basic skills, I feel like I lack the confidence to offer a coaching session but I don't feel I have the correct expertise. However, expertise are build upon repetition - thus, confidence to just started is needed. Chicken and egg situation, right? Should I 'fake' that confidence and just roll with it.. or acquire necessary skillsets FIRST, then do the coaching. 🤔 But then I don't want to come across as not genuine person. Even if a free session, you still got to have the right skill right? And you have to proof your expertise as well, and that part I feel I still lack, but one thing for sure that I genuinely want to make impact with my life, and earn at the same time. I recently read a book, the Alter Ego Effect, turns out a lot of public figure have this alter ego - like Beyonce with her Sasha Fierce alt ego. In summary is that when you step into this alt ego in your professional settings, critics, negativity in real world wouldn't affect your real 'self' hence you will continue to move forward without being burned down from negativity.. I think this is a great concept to be applied when you started in whatever you want to do, but then I'm still learning on how to blend this perfectly so that you don't lose part of yourself midway. Curious on how the community face the challenge of not confident x sufficient expertise. Can you share what works for you, what don't, and what you learn from the process?