Behavioral Requests > Criticism/Confrontation
At a friend gathering, a dear friend started sharing thoughts on immigration that was hard for me to hear, as the only non white member. So I requested she speak about her direct experience rather than her opinion on what other people are/arenโt allowed to do. I also requested she share the group time with others since we only gather every few months. It was heated for a few moments, but better for everyone after that. [zoom out] As Cycle Breakers, the burden of making spaces feel more safe may land on you a bit more, because you have the skillset and awareness. We โneedโ more Cycle Breakers to shift the collective from conditioning to consciousness. โNeedโ not in a โsalvationโ way, but as in โneedโ as it will make the transition so much smoother. See folx on Tue at 9:45am for our weekly open group. *FYI: Andrea, a skilled Boundary Coach trainee, will host Tue group on 3/10 while Iโm at a Family constellation conference next week. - BIPOc group on Thur, 3/12 will move to Fri, 3/13 at 7pm EST instead. @Tashiana Dew @Mai Le @Joan A @Natasha Merchant @Andrea Atkinson @Nikki Thorpe